If you have been dating the person for not over a year, but you really love the peson, so you give away your viginity, would that make your parter look down on you, get bored with you early, or does that make the the two get closer and be more in loved?
2006-09-29 11:11:27 · 11 answers · asked by leazngurl 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Depending on how old you are. If you are under sixteen, then wait. Generally, boys eighteen and under are looking to have sex with almost anyone who is willing. Don't let him take something away from you that you are not willing to give up. However, not all girls and boys are the same. It may hurt the relationship, or it may not. Unfortunately, these are the type of decisions we all have to make at this age.
2006-09-29 11:20:33 · answer #1 · answered by lifescircle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel like waiting is best. If you save yourself for marriage you are giving the person you love enough to marry a wonderful gift on there wedding night.Marriage is a covenant between to people. Lets say you have sex with them and you don't get married you will feel awful.
2006-09-29 18:16:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
date them for atleast two more years. get to know each other A LOT MORE.
it will be sadwhen u have a chld and u divorce ur partner and ur child gets tired of moving back and forth.
trust me my friends hate it.
there is nothin wrong with waiting for sex after marriage.
in fact the bible says we should w8.
sex isn't the best thing. god has the best for us later.
hes just testing your faith right now.
2006-09-29 18:16:13 · answer #3 · answered by Joe™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in marriage before sex. Also it depends
2006-09-29 18:14:44 · answer #4 · answered by Keketso M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i consider that end of relationship sometimes a young couple who do that mistake always learn that marriag ehas no means left after that...i wonder what is purpose of marriage after all.....
2006-09-29 18:14:08 · answer #5 · answered by Vinny C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So... look at this link first before deciding on having sex: http://www.pamf.org/teen/sex/virginity/
and
http://www.sexdictionary.info/firsttime.html
then decide.
2006-09-29 18:31:32 · answer #6 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don´t be afraid of exploring your sexuality, enjoy it, but don´t let anybody play with your feelings.
GOOD LUCK
2006-09-29 18:14:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love each other then go for it. They love you they will have no reason to judge you.
2006-09-29 18:23:26 · answer #8 · answered by Vesdog! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a good posibility they will look down on you.
2006-09-29 18:14:00 · answer #9 · answered by djsanner@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If youre not engaged dont do it yet..
2006-09-29 18:18:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋