my friend thinks she's popular when she really isn't. Most of my other friends think she's a butthole, and she is so not popular and she lies alot, i need something to say to her to let her know that she isn't the middle school popular, and it needs to be kinda rude like her, and i also need something that i can rub in her face to w her how it feels!!!
2006-09-29 11:04:37 · 13 answers · asked by Cari 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
"Denial is the most predictable of all human responses". When I was in grade school those type of people were all over the place. They act rude because being popular requires the mockery of those below them. They just overdo it and become complete jerks. As for making her feel bad... DON"T BECOME THE JERK! Let this person go. Retribution come in so many shapes and forms.
2006-09-29 11:31:28 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Thinker 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As long as you keep this in mind, whatever she does that makes her seem "all that" won't bother you as much:
There Is No Such Thing As Popular.
If you guys don't give her the attention she's getting by her behavior, she'll probably see the change and stop. Right now, people are talking about her, and everytime her name comes out of someone's mouth, it means someone's taking the time to think about her, whether it's positive or negative.
Actions speak louder than words. Everyone stop giving her the attention, she'll come to realize she's really not all she thinks she is.
2006-09-29 18:13:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does it matter? Popularity is overrated. Especially when it's a constant game of "Keeping up with the Johnsons." The only people with a similar view to yours are other little ones who feel the same was about Bettie Sue who's developing breasts faster than them. Grow Up.
2006-09-29 18:10:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was this girl when i was younger! I can tell you that she is a genious because you can fake being popular and once you get a few people to buy into it then you have something. I would stop drinking that hatorade and let the girl do her thing.
2006-09-29 18:10:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a matter of self-confidence. Ithink you better talk to you're friend and tell her that what she's doing is wrong. 'Cause if you are a true frind you wouldn't like others to say that she is a butthole. i think you should team up with you're other friends and talk to her.
2006-09-29 23:15:30 · answer #5 · answered by prettylovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Popular no and days normally means you are the most hated in the school. and don't go down to her level. and if you don't likfe her why are you friends. lastly.... it is middle school... wait till like 10th or 11th grade... they that is when you know your status forreal
2006-09-29 18:10:07 · answer #6 · answered by ifitaintmeidontcare 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok she sounds like a jerk. but don't bring yourself down to her level. just have a talk with her. tell her to stop living in this fantasy land of popularity. tell her she is making a fool of herself and you don't want to watch her be laughed at anymore.
2006-09-29 18:08:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the big scheme of things, who really cares about stuff like that!
2006-09-29 18:06:25 · answer #8 · answered by PMS 24-7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they think that because they figure if they a lot of people they know then they think they know everyone!so if u cool with everyone then they think their popular.
2006-09-29 18:09:54 · answer #9 · answered by Willie D Manuel J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go up to her face and say it, just tell the b i t c h that she is not popular........if not tell somebody else to do it
2006-09-29 18:07:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋