my boyfriend and i been together for over a year so after a year being together an in a long distant relationship we move in together we both have kids he son lives with his mom an my son lives with me an loves my boyfreind an calls him dad this is the first real dad for him he is 8 .so now my boyfriend who has been hurt so bad in the pass is pushing me away tells me he needs time to think. what do i do?
2006-09-29 10:46:52 · 4 answers · asked by Jluckie28 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
give him time and space...remember, this is not his own flesh/blood calling him dad. it has to take a toll on him emotionally to get used to it!
2006-09-29 10:49:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
O my goodness, poor baby. I feel so bad for your son. how confusing! Definitely don't stay in a relationship and be miserable for your son's sake. Kids sense that and a bad relationship with the "dad" is just as bad as having none at all. Give him his space and if you still want to be with him, be patient and considerate to his feelings. Maybe he will come back. Good luck.....
2006-09-29 17:51:57 · answer #2 · answered by AUDREY H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give the man what he want, his is having 2nd thought girl. There is a reason why they call it a " boy friend" and not a " husband" girl!
2006-09-29 17:50:11 · answer #3 · answered by Kenshin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him time to think and if he don't want u then leave his sorry a** and move on!
2006-09-29 17:51:33 · answer #4 · answered by Louise G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋