i mean 2 mans at the same time , or if somebody did that she is sick , and lost ???
2006-09-29 10:31:07 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Yes you can love two men at the same time. It happens all the time.
2006-09-29 10:32:14 · answer #1 · answered by to_sassy4_u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely honey, you can love two men at the same time. Tons of people do, and hats off for you to admiting it, most pretend they don't and make a whole big mess.
We have an endless ability to love. What stops us froim expressing it is judgements passed on us by culture, society and religeon.
Look up 'polyamory' and see if the ideas fit who you are.
The hard part of loving more than one person at once, is that the two guys might not be the same way, they may both want exclusivity.
But if they are OK with it, just enjoy your ability to love, and to recognise that not just one person can fill all of your needs
2006-09-29 17:58:52 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Max 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's more common than you might think. It's called Polyamory.
Poly, meaning "many", and amor being "love."
It's sort of like polygamy - without the illegalities of multiple marriage.
It requires a certain level of maturity, because a lot of men are not equipped to deal with "their" woman loving another man.
I mean physical love as well as mental and emotional love.
The relationships can evolve in many different ways, too.
You're NOT sick and/or lost. If they know about each other, and they know that you love them both, good. If they have met and can deal with it, or even be friends - that's AMAZING.
I've got two men in my life right now that are just amazing and incredible. I've loved 1 for 4 years, and the other for just 6 months.
Smile, sweety, but smile genuinely. Smile HUGE if they both love you.
2006-09-29 17:36:35 · answer #3 · answered by l_marie_allen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes but with two different kind of love. You can love your mother and love your sister. Sexual love is yet another kind of love. If you mean to love sexually two different persons at the same time then I would say NO simply because the love you feel for one it's the only one you want and you don't feel like wanting any other. Yet, I think, that if you still think you do... then perhaps you are in love with your own self with these persons. This is what I think.
2006-09-29 17:44:58 · answer #4 · answered by Nicolette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, your heat can love your mom and dad, and your brother sister and cousin and neighv=bor and husband and children all at the same time. So I would think you LOVE by the way of actually ADMIRING or LIKING something about someone, right? so, if a man does something you like and you start admiring it and then another man has qualities about himself that you find that you are admiring then yes, you could find yourself in that situation. which, see, in Islam that is the perfect answer to why men and women are kept seperate to AVOID this, and see, it makes sense!
2006-09-29 17:35:53 · answer #5 · answered by cricketwinner@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean be in love with two men at the same time, if so, well its not a good idea is it because someone is going to get deeply hurt and unfortunately it could just well be you.
2006-09-29 17:34:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, a person can be in love with multiple people at the same time. Why not? You think there's a limit to how much capacity for love is inside us? Why would there be?
P.S. What is your first language?
2006-09-29 17:33:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I want to know that myself... I'm with a guy and I adore him, I want to marry him and I just love him more than the world. Yet I keep thinking of someone else, he was my best friend before I met the guy I'm with now, and I know that he loved me but I just ignored it and ditched him.
I think if you feel like this too then you're just lost and confused. I'm going to stick to the man I'm with now because I know he's the sensible choice, I've already promised myself to him and i truly love him. I guess the other guy is just you know, the one that got away.
2006-09-29 19:44:33 · answer #8 · answered by floppity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that you can love 2 persons at one one time. Very possible.
The first person might have something that you really love in him. The second person has something in him that is magnifying and attracts you deeply in him. The bottom line is, no two people can have the same qualities. That´s why.
2006-09-29 17:34:55 · answer #9 · answered by lillianrose z 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u can love 2 people at the same time. I have loved my ex 4 8yrs but i love my partner 2. so yes u can
2006-09-29 17:41:44 · answer #10 · answered by hatfieldnomi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋