My best friend thinks her boyfriend is going to dump her. She is crying on the phone. What should I say?
2006-09-29 10:22:15 · 10 answers · asked by ST-STAR 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell her she has no reason to be upset yet. Honsetly she isn't single yet, so she shouldn't fret. If she keeps moping about and what-not he probably WILL dump her.
When he actaully does, give her a big hug and take her out to your guy's favorite place. Make sure it isn't somewhere that they went together. Treat her to a Coke or Ice Cream cone. Laugh and be giddy. The best thing to do is keep her mind off of him.
2006-09-29 10:25:51 · answer #1 · answered by Steph 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well all you need to do is comfort her. She needs someone to listen. Be that shoulder 4 her. Don't put her down no matter how stupid her situation seems to you and if it makes all the sense don't be like most and try to take advantage of her in her situation. Jus listen. Try to calm her down. Make her happy. If she's feeling that bad about it. Jus let her know that you care. There are to many factors and to many ways things like this could go. Jus be a friend.
2006-09-29 17:26:41 · answer #2 · answered by a1b2c3d4bj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear about your friend and make sure you try to uplift her/him by assuring that GOD takes away and replaces certain people in each of our lives...for good reasons. It hurts now, but as soon as we realize that nothing lasts forever, the burden is lightly lifted. Take care and stay a good friend to others.
2006-09-29 17:31:51 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Jet Black 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be as supportive as you can. Tell her to talk to her boyfriend to find out what's going on. Let her know that you will be there for her.
2006-09-29 17:24:39 · answer #4 · answered by stephgirl78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to wait till he dumps her then take her out for some ice cream.
2006-09-29 17:25:15 · answer #5 · answered by luna1081 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how she was dumped and how long they were together
2006-09-29 17:25:08 · answer #6 · answered by Rafael S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry be happy when you worry you make me to worry too, when you are sad im sad too.
life is live tell her that she will find someone better
2006-09-29 17:25:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What she really needs is someone who will listen to her. She is going to need to talk it out. So just lend her your ear.
2006-09-29 17:28:59 · answer #8 · answered by pa_susie99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and get a lot of ben and jerrys... Take it to her house and let her talk to you about it...
2006-09-29 17:24:41 · answer #9 · answered by Not Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it ain't broke don't fix it!
2006-09-29 17:24:53 · answer #10 · answered by elizabeth_davis28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋