Married man?

Question

Ok! he called me it's been 3 days since I broke things off. Yes I answer and he then began to apologize to me and telling me how much he misses me and that he never ment to hurt me. And if I can give him another chance. He also say that he wants to see me and talk about what we should do. I'm not sure what should I do? keep in mind he's the one who married

Answer 1

Well, he's married!!! What you should do is leave him alone. And if he's cheating on his wife, he would do it to you if you two were together. You deserve to be with someone who can be faithful and trustworthy. DON'T SETTLE!!! Once a cheater always a cheater.

Answer 2

Oh please this will not be the first or last time you will hear this from him unless you break it off for good if you give him another chance he will keep singing that same old sob story "sorry didnt mean to hurt you please give me another chance" hes at home doing the same thing with his wife if and when you do see him stick to what you told him because evidently he has no morals and he will tell you whatever he thinks you want to hear to keep you from walking away hes enjoying having the best of both worlds and whats in it for you basically nothing when he can get away from his wife it will only be for a short time and even then you are being deprived you will spend many lonely days alone while he on the other hand has his wife if you drop him now and stick to the choice you made you will find someone or they will find you when you least expect it.

Answer 3

You need to get rid of this guy, immediately, for several reasons:
~He's hurt you!
~He's married (people who have cheated once, are more likely to do it again, if you want a committed relationship with him it may not happen)
~*Although it isn't necessarily your fault*, you're about to get yourself between something that is going to make you look like the bad guy - if he breaks it off with his wife, you'll be considered a homewrecker and that wife could take out her anger on you which is something you need to decide if you want to deal with

I mean even if he's really great, you can probably find a guy just as great if not better, who isn't married and therefore doesn't carry all the baggage.

Answer 4

Simply put you're a complete fool for being with another woman's man. You have no rights, no claims and no security... nothing. You are nothing more than his spare sperm bank.

Don't you want to be happily married some day? WHAT man will want a woman who was a mistress for another man? You belittle yourself and should feel shame for your actions.

Stay away from him and look for an UNmarried man to be with you. While you're with the wrong man, you'll never find the right one to be with. You're stupid to let yourself be used by a selfish bastard! He'll replace you with another dumb bimbo in a couple of days... just like he would have done once he got tired of you!

Answer 5

If he is married to someone else. Then he is cheating you out of something wonderful with someone else. Move on. The pain is real, but it will go away faster if you sever all contact with him and just plain and simply move on. Do you really want a man that will only give you part of him? I would prefer a man who gives me everything not just bits and pieces. You should care for yourself more. Seeing a married man really tells us how much you lack self-esteem. You are much much better then that, trust me.

Answer 6

Are you seriously considering being a home wrecker? That's horrible. Go find a guy that isn't trying to ruin his own life AND drag you down with him. And call his wife so she can find someone who really appreciates her. Bad bad bad situation to even be considering. No man is worth having the guilt of breaking up a family so keep it his problem and get the heck away as fast as you can. Good luck.

Answer 7

You should not even be communicating with this person anymore. Why do you even ask when you know the right thing to do. By seeing him you show that you are still entertaining the idea of your relationship and he will always use that as bait to get what he wants. Run as fast as you can away from this person and if he persist, threaten to tell his wife.

Answer 8

I wouldn't meet with him. Anything that he has to say, he can do it over phone or email. You really don't want to be the other woman. You will always come second. Think about it, you won't be able to spend Valentine's Day with him, and the last minute cancellations and sneaking around will eventually get tiresome. I would just cut my loses and move on.

Answer 9

If you aren't his wife, you don't need to be messing around with him! How can you trust someone who cheats on his wife? Do you honestly think if he leaves his wife for you that he won't cheat on you? You need a reality check. Quit taking his calls, erase his number, get some self esteem! How would you like it if someone was messing with your husband? Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?

Answer 10

He's a sleeze!! Move on to somebody whos single. You deserve what you get. He misses you and never meet to hurt you?? Give him another chance? I bet his wife has heard that before too.