my wife and i have not had any sexual contact in almost 2 months imean nothing, she was talking pills for low libido ran out , iguess its my reponsibility to get more. it seems she doesnt care about my needs, when i used to beg before i wasa big inconvinance what do i do married 13 years
2006-09-29 10:05:22 · 10 answers · asked by cdplayer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
what u do is be romantic don't treat her like a roommate treat her like your lover most women stop liking sex after YEARS of marriage because the guy gets LAZY and just thinks he should get it without doing anything. You make sure she feels loved she may return the favor!
2006-09-29 10:09:21 · answer #1 · answered by ally'smom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first, keep in mind intercourse for women is not that great (no organism)imganine having sex with no organism not fun... a guy has to be a really good eater, most women once we have had a organism don't care what u do after that...
almost impossible to have an organism with intercourse if you're a girl..... a guy would have to go for a long time and be really fast the whole time, and have a big one....
2006-09-29 17:31:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your wife has medical problems she is not responsible for her actions or lack thereof. She should see her doctor again and get on top of the situation. If she is not able to function normally then you should take up the slack and assist however you can so she can get better. We men like to whine and complain and if you have to do so do it while you are helping her. Good luck.
2006-09-29 17:12:31 · answer #3 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even tho sex isn't the main part of a marriage it is a big part because it's a way to become closer to your mate. You need to relay to your wife how you feel and tell her to be honest about what she feels.
Try new things and be more open-minded
Good Luck!
2006-09-29 17:10:43 · answer #4 · answered by miss_lady6980 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YOu need marriage counseling, adn she needs a visit to the doctor to see if there is an underlying medical condition effecting her mood and libido.
please try both, for the sake of your marriage.
2006-09-29 17:18:22 · answer #5 · answered by KB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have a roommate not a wife.
2006-09-29 17:33:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your "needs" need to be met, then you could always seek out a professional.
2006-09-29 17:19:45 · answer #7 · answered by imnotbtami 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was you i would stop the wineing and go buy her some Zestra it is good stuff and better than pills
2006-09-29 17:28:57 · answer #8 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some sex outside.
2006-09-29 17:20:41 · answer #9 · answered by dotab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same thing the rest of us do. Same thing.
2006-09-29 17:23:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋