i began dating a married man that i met on yahoo games. it was completely unexpected and unintentional but we began chatting while playing which soon led to a date. within a month the affair become as emotionally involved as physical. we confessed our love to each other and even talked about a future together. he had been dealing with marital problems after his wife had cheated on him. they were both in and out of counseling while he also struggled with a deep depression and unemployment. he has a beautiful home with her though she makes more money and NO children, but she was determined not to lose him no matter what. even though she cheated first, i was his FIRST affair. after a while i gave up on him being with me because he needed more time so eventually he left me and we haven't been in contact since. it's been 2 months and i still love him but he made the right decision to work on his marraige. i just wonder if he still loves me too and if there's a chance he could return???
2006-09-29 09:55:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The fact that he didn't leave his wife for u should tell u the answer to your question. Most likely he had an affair "get back at her" for cheating on him. It has nothing to do with how he felt about u. It would do u good to just forget about this married man and move on with your life.
2006-09-29 10:00:21 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you so insecure that you spend your life waiting around for a man that belongs to someone else. ANYONE that dates a married man is a loser, capital L loser.
I suppose it's safe to assume that all of this negative information about his wife and his marriage was obtained through conversation between you and him, so it must be true, huh? The man is lying to his wife, his family, his co workers, his whole life is a lie, and yet, you believe his sob story.
Most extra marital affairs end with the other woman never being the chosen one. If he does leave her, maybe he'll pick one of the other Internet sluts he met in a game room,........you don't think you're the only one now do you?
Sorry to be so harsh dear, but I have no tolerance for home wreckers. Although he may be the married one, you're assisting him in hurting other people by playing the game.
Find your own man LOSER.
2006-09-29 10:39:11 · answer #2 · answered by Cinderella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must try and understand that for a married man cheating isnt about love its about the secrecy and also conquering meaning getting from you what he feels his wife will not give him at home so then he has the best of both worlds theres no emotion involved usually I have only seen this work once a friend of mine was seeing a married woman who eventually did leave and divorce her Husband and right today they are still together but I really dont know the full details I just know what I saw and why would you want to be second best I mean you deserve better than that find a man for you and only you and hes lucky his wife still wants him with his issues I dont think that what you feel is love I think its infatuation.
2006-09-29 10:13:46 · answer #3 · answered by CaliMa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if a man cheats on his wife and then leaves her for the mistress what makes you think he will be faithful to the mistress. 2nd I doubt its his first affair they all say that. Move on find a single guy someone you won't have doubts about and that you can trust 1000%.
2006-09-29 10:01:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake up and smell the coffee. Cheating men don't "love" their mistress. They "lust" after her. When it is over the men simply forget about her. They move on to the next easy target.
2006-09-29 09:58:53 · answer #5 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He might love you but it's plain to see that he loves her more. Yes, he might one day return after his marriage fail, but don't sit around hoping and waiting. Move on.
2006-09-29 10:02:31 · answer #6 · answered by teeka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
poor baby, yes he loves you, your coochie that is!
2006-09-29 10:20:18 · answer #7 · answered by Frank R 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋