I have been noticing all the questions from women who are dating married men. They always complain that the man has not divorced his wife and ask how long it will take for him to divorce her.
Don't these women realize that this line is as old as time? When will women understand that married men are not going to destroy their families and lose their children when they can get extra sex on the side?
2006-09-29 09:54:52 · 16 answers · asked by physandchemteach 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
thats a very good question, most men that I know, that are cheating and have told me, they would never leave their wifes or family, that all they have to do is tell the girl that and there able to get some,....I think women should not fall for this stupid line, that married men tell them.
2006-09-29 10:00:37 · answer #1 · answered by Cobra 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
An affair is a romantic time in which one escapes from the boring relationship that they are too lazy to work on into this beautiful perfect future relationship which never really happens. However, to make the affair a real relationship by leaving the wife or husband would be a lot of real work, which they were avoid doing in the first place. Plus the new relationship would just turn into another boring relationship to escape from later on so they might as well drag it out and find someone new to have an affair with.
I think women figure out its a line about a year after the affair ends.
2006-09-29 10:33:36 · answer #2 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Women that date married men are home wreckers. Weather the man leaves his family or not, this woman is taking away from time he would otherwise be able to spend with his kids, and yes his wife too. Why would anyone leave their family for a loser who can't find her own man? She is such a loser in fact, that she fails to realize that even if he did leave her, he's a cheater. When he's tired of her, he'll find someone else and she'll be sitting home alone.
Capital L for anyone dating a married man.
2006-09-29 10:13:33 · answer #3 · answered by Cinderella 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Adultery happened the moment he divorced his first wife....for whatever reason. The insert "except for immorality" does not mean what most think it means. The popular wisdom is that divorce is permitted because of immorality. That assumption is not supported by a more thorough understanding of the scriptures. Only a few verses before the "except" part Jesus clarifies the law. He says that "because of the hardness of your hearts" divorce was permitted for a time. "But from the beginning IT WAS NOT SO." There is another reason why divorce was permitted (for a time) because of fornication. YHWH was married to the people of Israel...spiritually. But the people committed fornication by worshiping idols. YHWH couldn't destroy Israel because He had committed Himself to bring the messiah through the tribe of Judah. Instead He permitted Himself to divorce them spiritually. And the men of Israel (having some understanding of YHWH's behavior) took advantage of a temporary lapse in the law to divorce their own wives for "uncleanness." But when Christ was born, Israel was no longer needed to be the progenitor of Jesus. Thus the law of permission to divorce for uncleanness was repealed. Now no one may divorce for ANY reason....as it was in the beginning. "What YHWH has joined together, let not man put asunder." "Except for fornication" simply means that Jesus has already explained that exception previously. And now it should be clear that fornication is no longer an excuse to divorce. This understanding is also a proof that once saved always saved is correct. YHWH may not spiritually divorce (unmarry, or un-save) any person who has been destined to be saved. No matter what kind of sin they fall into.
2016-03-18 02:48:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it takes a certain kind of person to date a man she KNOWS to be married. Not surprising that certain kind would fall for that line. Women who wouldn't, aren't likely to date a married man.
Oh, and the married man is as much as or more a homewrecker than the foolish other woman.
2006-09-29 10:33:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree with you Ive only seen this happen once and for some reason it lasted,but I have to agree with you the women who choose to date a married man should know if they dont know already that theres no future in it and they are wasting their time with him and also depriving themselves of finding a man of their own who are ready for a serious relationship.
2006-09-29 09:59:11 · answer #6 · answered by CaliMa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because men are good at telling tails lol
they know how to play these women I think it's sad that they go after some one's Husband.
Dont they know that some one always get's hurt and most off the time it's the women.
sad to say but I never feel it for the bit on the side. always on the side off the wife
2006-09-29 09:59:40 · answer #7 · answered by jambo 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
These women are in denial, and your right the men are having the best of 2 worlds why quit .
2006-09-29 09:57:03 · answer #8 · answered by brite star 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
women who date married men do not respect themselves they r only degrading themselves a real man does
not cheat on his wife love does not hurt
2014-07-09 16:12:19 · answer #9 · answered by Charmaine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they know what the wives got they want it and it is just envy and belief they can have it
2006-09-29 09:56:46 · answer #10 · answered by twitch 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋