(This isnt a high school question... its serious.... Please...)
so i started talking 2 her about 3 weeks agoe.. shes 19 single preatty and shes cool.. the 3 of us chill 2-gether.. but my hubby (21) acts so COOL arround her I cant harly reconigse him... n
I get the FEMALE intuition telling me something is up.....!
He cheated in the past..with some1 i didnt know.. N is hard 2 trust him.. but I Swear i can read his eyes and they both have that gloowing eyecontact.. u know the flirty one...
I asked him, whats up.. n he said im just crazy.. that there is nothing and I m c'ing things.He says how could he do n-e th if Im always arround them.
HELP.... I know my heart doesnt lie.. Im afraid he might be calling her behind my back.. trying 2 get at her...
Could i really be just crazy........! (JEALOUS )
she even created a my space recently.. after he mention he and I had one. And he gut supper mad when I told her about him previously cheating on me...cuz i make him lok lik a bad
2006-09-29 09:53:26 · 14 answers · asked by ce!y 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he said i make him look like a bad guy...
and hes complaind 2 her about my jelouse..
2006-09-29 09:55:30 · update #1
I asked him to go 2 the store with me and he didnt want to but when he heard she was coming he taged along.....
also ...
he has neve liked n-e of my friends in the past he wouldnt let me talk to them wile he was arround...
2006-09-29 10:03:26 · update #2
If he cheated on you in the past, then it stands to reason, that you are going to be suspicious. I think that 95% of the time when we get these "vibes" we are on the right track. There is a saying "keep your friends close, but keep your enemies closer'! By following this simple instruction, it has been a great help in my life. Try to be "nonchalant," don't cross any barriers with accusations. This will keep the hubby with out an excuse to talk about "things wrong in your life", if he plans on using that as a alibi to get her to feel sorry for him. The oldest line in the world for a married man to pick up another woman that knows he is married is, "she doesn't understand me." Haaah! We understand more than they do. Be coy, don't let your heart take over and confuse your judgement. If you give him enough rope, he will hang his self, if there is really something going on. There is no perfect crime in matters of the heart, so don't worry, until you "know" there is a reason to worry. Play it smart!
2006-09-29 10:08:25 · answer #1 · answered by smplyme132 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think yes cheating could be there or nope its ur senses playing up. now some people who have no trust for others do see the same in the other person. anywaz. if ur friend is causing u nightmares then why do u have such a friend . time u had distanced from her dont u feel. about ur husband if he cheated once what guarantee he wont do it again. i have a feeling ur hsband needs a good councelling. if there are some things u dont like about him which is causing ur marriage to diaster shouldnt he avoid those mistakes. and same goes for u. well right now u dont know what is going on so u cant say much if seriously he is cheating or its ur jeaoulsy playing up. get a better picture of things try findng out and talking to him. tell him what the prons and cons of this relationship will be to ur marriage and what disaster it can bring up. i thin best thing would be that u guys talk things over. even if he doenst improve pliz move forward and stop wasting time on such a loser. get a grip of life.
2006-09-29 10:02:12 · answer #2 · answered by Vinny C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would keep a eye on the situation see how he reacts when she comes over to chill dont sayanything anymore that u think something is up act like every thing is cool.If something is going on u will eventually catch on an if u have a weird feeling definately follow it female intuations are never wrong. I know from experience. And the trust issue is a big one since he already cheatedon you once so give him the benefit of the doubt an see what goes on.
2006-09-29 10:00:58 · answer #3 · answered by Heather C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right to go with your gut feeling. It won't let you down. You might want to take it easy with your new friendship, especially if you feel like she is a threat. There might not be anything going on just yet but if you are noticing their eye contact, then it is sure to happen. Protect what is yours, tell her that you and him are spending some time together this weekend and it would be better if she didn't come over. Tell him that she is out with her boyfriend lol. That is a good reason why you never have single friends when you are married.
2006-09-29 09:58:54 · answer #4 · answered by heaven o 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he is innocent. Not only a husband but even a wife would try to be a bit more cool. You always want to be cool in front of your spouse's friends.
If they were cheating, he would not do all that it front of you. He would stay like a good boy in front of you and do the rest when you are not around.
He is just talking means their is nothing on between them.
Don't worry, be clear on this
2006-09-29 10:00:10 · answer #5 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, just to let you know that when a man is doing something wrong and you question him about it....They will ALWAYS say that your "crazy", insane, blah, blah, blah. I never knew this in my twenties either. They know that it will make you question yourself. They say that so that you will focus on yourself instead of them. You aren't crazy. From what you describe about the eye contact, it sounds as if you do have something to worry about. Do you have kids? If not, do you want to have to wonder about his intentions or behavior for the rest of your life? You need to be with someone that you can count on, and not worry about what he is doing when you are not around.
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2016-10-18 05:19:42 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you dont know this girl yet and she can not care about your recently friendship and go with your bf...be careful (even if you feel you are crazy) but try no to hung out the three of you just girls and be with your bf every single weekend ...and besides that try to check him without him knowing (like test messages and his phone bill) why dont you ask for the resume at the Telephone company???
that´s jut to be sure and stay cool
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2006-09-29 09:58:38 · answer #8 · answered by miliscal123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who's friend is this? Doesn't sound much like yours. Tell her to shove off your old man, or you'll shove her off the porch! Frankly, if he were mine, he'd already be living elsewhere. Cheaters are not worth the space they take up.
2006-09-29 09:58:48 · answer #9 · answered by krautlover2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first us girls know when something is up we just get that feeling so if your gut is telling you something you should really listen .....if you dont want him to cheat on you with this lil hoochie then you should really stop bringing her around him the closer you bring them together the more they will want eachother once a cheater always a cheater ! (he will do it again)
2006-09-29 10:00:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋