Im 13 and so is my best friend. I hate to say this about her but she's a whore, she already lost her virginity. And im afraid that she doesnt understand the consequences about sex. should i confront her?
2006-09-29 09:49:20 · 9 answers · asked by b_halmer 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
whore is a very strong word, dude. just let her do her own thing, it's her life not yours.
you can talk to her about it, but dont try to control her.
2006-09-29 09:51:29 · answer #1 · answered by mica 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, it sounds like your friend is heading towards a life of trouble. You need to confront her. You may lose her friendship, but she neds to know that she could get pregnant, get diseases, or be raped. I don't think she would want any of those things to happen. It is just so shameful that someone as young as 13 is having sex. You should not have sex until you are older and committed in a long-term relationship. Actually, you should wait until marriage, but people can't control themselves. I am a virgin, 24 years old, and have been with my boyfriend since I was 20. How's that for will power! Pray to God for her...she needs your help.
2006-09-29 16:54:12 · answer #2 · answered by Faith C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all. Congratulations. You seem like a great level-headed 13yr old. Secondly, I think it's great that you are so concerned about your best friend. I think it may be a good idea to confront her because, you're right. She's soo young now, and if she continues to do what she's doing she's going to lose her self esteem because men are going to want her only for sex, and that's it and she's going to wonder why she can't fall in love. I think you should let her know that it's only because you care for her and that you don't want her to get a name. Girlfriends need to watch out for each other. I've been friends with my best friend since I was your age and that was 20yrs ago. and if we didn't communicate about what bothered us, our friendship would've died. I hope your friend understands and I hope you can work it out. Just be careful because people will associate you with her. Good Luck!
2006-09-29 16:58:23 · answer #3 · answered by hellomyfriend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell her about all the risks she is taking. She could die from having sex. There is so many STDs out there or she could even get pregnant. Be a friend to her and just tell her the consequences. She will thank you in the long run.
2006-09-29 18:00:54 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell her she's not respecting herself and she's being used.
You can tell her she's too young to have sex and it's dangerous.
You can tell her that she's your friend and there are so many other things to be involved with at this stage in her life.....then together get involved with school clubs and other social activities.
2006-09-29 18:16:15 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. don call ur best friend a whore.
2.relax.
3.she is not a whore.
4. she is injoyin her life.
5.don tell her any thing.
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2006-09-29 17:08:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You and Lilly T are having some fun eh?
2006-09-29 16:54:19 · answer #7 · answered by united9198 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as soon as you can get to her alone, tell her how you feel about this issue.
if you are a christian and are true to god, pray that he gives you the power to overcome your friend so she is pure again.
pray that he works through you and gives HIS advice.
its all about him,anyway..
2006-09-29 16:53:30 · answer #8 · answered by Joe™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, even if she gets upset with you, she will at least think about what you say.
2006-09-29 16:51:48 · answer #9 · answered by missyhardt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋