I believe I am a cool guy because Id been told I am smart, atheletic and cute... but I cant really form a bond with anyone... I dont really like to talk to people cause I dont know what to say ( guy nor girl, i have problems talking to even my closest friends and family).
I would really need to help on how to be more social and be able to think of things to say.
Any tips will be greatly appreciated.
2006-09-29 09:45:03 · 8 answers · asked by mierdurez 2 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
Try taking a speech class. It would help you get used to speaking in front of and to people and it could also help you learn to use your words in a better more effecient way! I write and speak and it helps me talk to other people and know how to communicate what I want to say by using my words better. You should try it! It might also help you make some friends. You never know!
Good luck!!!!!!
2006-09-29 09:50:47 · answer #1 · answered by Lacking Daisies 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only advice I have for you is this: Placing myself in a state of partial to full inebriation has always made me more open and able to interact better with others.
2006-09-29 16:54:30 · answer #2 · answered by lee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First practice to talk in front of mirror.The subject of your speech could be the reasons of your" problems of talking" ,make question and answer yourself.
2006-09-29 17:00:04 · answer #3 · answered by <<< sky >>> 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Join a group or club of some kind.You will be forced to socialize and it will give you more confidence.
2006-09-30 04:42:24 · answer #4 · answered by Celebrity girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
we have the same problem. it's not that i'm shy but i cant think of words or topic to say. but what i do is i practice in front of mirror and it helps alot.
2006-09-29 17:28:38 · answer #5 · answered by masha 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way you do
but I can't get the right words out sometimes from julie
2006-09-29 16:51:51 · answer #6 · answered by Julie K 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would love to meet you. I can't shut up!! HEHE Honestly, just say what's on your mind. Find someone to talk to that is interested in what you have to say. No matter what it is, just say it. Believe me it's liberating!!
Good luck!
2006-09-29 16:53:44 · answer #7 · answered by Mega 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be your self , think about what you want to say, good friends make conversation easy, how do you do on the phone, maybe you are trying to be to perfect
2006-09-29 17:14:50 · answer #8 · answered by elizabeth_davis28 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋