my wife and I stopped having sex for about a month should I be worried. Im sexually active.
2006-09-29 09:42:31 · 22 answers · asked by urhomiesid 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
worried, no.. sometimes you need the space... but I'd definitely romance her a bit... no wait, not just a bit, alot!! and its friday night, perfect to start the weekend off on a perfect note... :)
2006-09-29 09:45:23 · answer #1 · answered by lily 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to your wife and found out why the sex has stopped. Is she feeling down? Is she upset about her weight? Before it stopped did she seem to be happy and enjoying it. Marriage is not all about sex you know. Communication plays a very big part of it and maybe its time the two of you went for a romantic meal and talk to each other. Maybe the romance needs to come back into the marriage. Hopefully the two of you will work it out. But remember a kiss and cuddle, holding hands and saying you love each other, does not always need to end up in sex. Be there for each other, you will both make it through!
2006-09-29 16:47:09 · answer #2 · answered by Rabbit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you stop having sex? Your idea or hers. Worried about what since you say you are sexually active, whether or not your wife would be upset if she found out.
2006-09-29 16:46:21 · answer #3 · answered by wow one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you be sexually active if you and your wife stopped having sex over a month ago? You're cheating on her aren't ya?? I'm telllinnn !!!
2006-09-29 16:44:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she stopped having sex with you because you ARE sexually active and she knows it.
2006-09-29 16:45:16 · answer #5 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be so dumb! YOU SHOULD BE WORRIED! You are active ok, but you should know women are more active then men(sexually), I can NOT believe she doesnot have a sexual activity during a month! Go find a private detective!
Btw, why did you stop?
2006-09-29 16:52:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you aren't sexually active outside of your marriage. Find out why she isn't in the mood and the next time you are in the mood - put her needs first and go slow.
2006-09-29 16:45:27 · answer #7 · answered by Hebrews 11 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its important to find out what's going on. My wife has sex a lot less not because she's put on weight and even though I keep reassuring her that I still want her, she feels inadequate, and its ruining her mojo (and, mine too). So, figure out the root cause, and try to solve that.
2006-09-29 16:45:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are sexually active outside of your marriage?
2006-09-29 16:44:35 · answer #9 · answered by Genevieve 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, don't be worried. A month is not THAT long. I know it sounds cheesy, but you should ask her what's bothering her and tell her how you feel about it. Women really respond to open communication.
2006-09-29 16:45:50 · answer #10 · answered by Nicole H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋