How do I deal with a Cancer scare? I need help telling my fiance'!?

Question

Almost 2 yrs ago I found out hat I had HPV and what that meant for me(high-risk for cervical cancer) well after I went and got things checked out, my doctor told me everything was fine, but get checked in a year! Well 3mo later I found out I was pregnant with my daughter and my doctor kept a very close eye on me everything turned out fine I gad a healthy baby girl. So 3 weeks ago I go in for my normal yearly and find out that I don't have HPV but I may have some cancerous cells developing, I just found out less than 5min ago but I'm afraid of dying and I don't know how to tell him what's up! He'll be home in about an hour. How do I prepare myself and my family for the worst! I'm not sure I'm strong enough to stand up and face what may happen to me! Anyone know of or been iin a situation like this?

By the way for those who don't know HPV is Human Papiloma Virus! It is a STD but 80% of the time harmless and doesn't affect men! But in some instenses like mine it can cause cervical cancer! I heard over 85% of men are carrying it and don't know it. It's a very common infection it just doesn't cause any problems as often as other STDs do. So ladies and Gents Be Careful!

Answer 1

I had Class C cervical cells. They said the same thing "cells with a high potential of developing into cancer. I had laser surgery at the doctors office shortly there after. Surgery was a breeze, no immediate affects. That was 18 yrs ago and I've had 2 children been to my doctors every yr and seen so signs of anything of the sort since then. Take a deep breath, relax and realize this preventative maintenance and everything should be fine. Best of luck, hun.

Answer 2

is it that u may have or that u have cancer that worries u ?hay first of make sure that u have what u r frightened of or there is no point worryin without a known real cause.even when u know what u have i dont see how ur worries can make a difference.what u need to do is go through everythin that has to be done and deal with the specifics of what u have.but keep in mind that that ur frail emotional state for most parts affects ur condition negatively even at the physical level.good luck

Answer 3

Tricky....do you have enough information to answer the questions he is going to ask? I beat breast cancer last year and had all the support from my family, I was open, upfront and we all cried together, i too was sure i was going to die. Two days after being told and crying for those whole two days I stood up, shook myself and thought NO WAY! I worked through it, be open and honest and you will get through this. This is something you need to do together. You need a hug tonight and the feeling of strong supportive arms, it is time to open up and say it as it is. I really wish you the best of luck and i hope all goes well for you. If you have to have treatment it is horrible but you have to keep going and live each day as it comes. a positive mind does wonders! Cjay

Answer 4

first of all, thank you for answering my question....i loved your answer.

well, my sister went through the same thing a few months ago. she had HPV and the doctor's found cancerous cells in her cervix. we were all pretty freaked out. they did a biopsy and found out that she was fine, thank god. all i can say is hope for the best. and i heard that it's usually nothing. the percentage of getting it is very low. either way, i hope for the best for you. stay strong.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

Face it, deal with it and believe it can and will be conquered.