Despite my attempts, she never allowed me to have sex with her during our teenage. We are early 30 now. Due to various reasons, our love did not materialize and she has been married to another man,who became my friend later, and I am also married now. Almost after 12 years, she suddenly called me and said she wants me and wants to have a baby from me.( note that she doesn't have any child). She said she did not forget our love, she forced me to Kiss her also. But i am reluctant to cheat my wife and the innocent man, who believes me. At the same time, i regret for my ex-love, who is desparately asking as a help. The girl who never allowed to touch her, telling me openly "Please take me!,I am just confused and worried about her position. What should i do now?, - Jack
2006-09-29 09:33:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
DO NOT DO IT. If she were legitimately asking you for your "help" in fathering a baby (if her hubby had fertility issues or something,) then the FOUR of you could talk about going to a clinic and giving her your sperm. But that's not what she wants. She just wants to have sex with you secretly, and you're both married. This is wrong, there are a million red flags here. Plus, if you did give her a baby, would she later sue you for child support? How could you protect yourself legally? She is bad news. Do not talk to her ever again. Get a restraining order against her if she ignores your requests to leave you alone.
2006-09-29 09:43:35 · answer #1 · answered by Heidi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have to handiest see her if you're willing to be part of her existence for a very long time, if she depends upon you & sees you as her father, then she is going to anticipate that as she grows up. If you can separate being part of her existence out of your relationship together with her mom, than which you could succeed. A father/daughter relationship, whether or not organic or now not, could be very exact & in case you have that with the little woman, & you want to continue that, you'll. You may just need just a little more time.
2016-08-09 15:25:51 · answer #2 · answered by lujan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, you are married and so is she..you have your answer. It is not worth hurting Innocent people for your own selfishness!! Let the past stay there! Your ex love is a fire cracker waiting to explode in your hand!!
2006-09-29 09:37:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jussssssssss do it!
You knew her before you met her hubby. She never asked for it when she was not married, but now she knows her circumstances and feeling hopeless about it ..............and not to wreck her and your lives just drift away from the relationship afterwards. You have given her sth for the past beautiful days. Dont cling on !
2006-09-29 09:56:16 · answer #4 · answered by dan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to forget all this. Talk to her hubby ( Your friend ) what is exactly problem in conceiving. Is that girl is medilaccy ok & problem is with her hubby , then you can talk to both & at the most you can donate your speam to them & they can have test tube baby. But avoid any other request. It may ruined both families.
2006-09-29 19:43:43 · answer #5 · answered by narendra k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to get the hell out of your way. why would you want to father a baby with someone you're not in the relationship with especially when you're married ? why bring a drama into a child life when you could avoided.? she have issue and you have one too if you fallen into her game. she need counseling and some psychiatric therapy.
2006-09-29 09:39:43 · answer #6 · answered by samdrian 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
U HAVE TO LEAVE THE PAST AND THINK OF THE FUTURE. U R EX-LOVER IS NOW OUT OF THE PICTURE THE ONLY PICTURE U HAVE IS U R WIFE . IF U R SO CONCERNED ABOUT U R EX-LOVER DISCUSS THIS PROBLEM WITH U R WIFE.
2006-10-07 03:03:46 · answer #7 · answered by shakthi v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its pretty much clear that for some reasons she cannot have child with her husband and needs child from you. its your decision to make.
but mind you if you make realtions with her that will spoil your married life, dont do it.
my serious suggestion is cut off any friendship with her or her husband, go far AWAY WITH YOUr wife and keep no contacts with her, cause she is useing u for her own benefit.
don't punish your wife for her. pls.
2006-10-05 01:30:49 · answer #8 · answered by Hidimba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear, belive me. It is really sin to do such things. One must be faithful to his or her own life partner to whom God joined him or her .Do you know that such sins have multiplied on the earth in recent times and that is why God's wroth is falling on man kind in many ways and that include new diseases like AIDS. If you are not convinced I will tell you how to know it . God has given his laws. Every disobediance brings consequence. You will be convinced when God will speak to you. Do you know how to listen to God ? But it will work only if you are a truth seeker because God speaks only to such people and only if the person is willing to SUBMIT TO GOD FULLY by obaying him,after he or she know the truth.Therefore before seeking the truth tell your sincierity and willingness to submit to God ( Jesus Christ) and start reading the Bible with such a true and sincere heart.Then God will truly speak to you. Then you will know the truth and get answer for their problemsn from God himself. Try it and you will see that God himself will speak to you.
2006-10-04 06:02:05 · answer #9 · answered by abrahamnarela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pls,don't cheat on your innocent wife,you better forget about your ex-love and be focus on your wife.
Good luck.
2006-09-29 09:41:12 · answer #10 · answered by roymark 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋