im ONLY 13,and this kid im sneaking around with is makeing me feel bad that i wont have sex with him. he is also threatening me that he'll trash my reputation. what should i do?
2006-09-29 09:23:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
You need to decide on your morals and stick to them....
having STD's, possibility of pregnancy and all the emotional baggage/etc from having multiple partners is SOOO much to deal with, even for adults....
If he's making you feel bad....don't hang out with him! Stay away from him and situations he'd be in. Make sure you're not alone together....
Think about where your putting yourself before you realize that you're alone and/or in danger or being pressured....
2006-09-29 09:27:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doing what you "said" you were doing in that last question "is" having "sex" Lilly! That's right , when everybody finds out that you are doing what you said at "13" , there goes your reputation, right down the toilet! He's threatening you? That right there should "stop" you from "ever" letting him even come near you again! Nobody should "threaten" you to do "anything" with them, least wise going further than you supposedly have already! If I were you I'd tell him to go find somebody else to threaten and leave you alone! What would happen if you endedup "pregnant" with this jerk? At 13? Say "goodbye" to the jerk Lillly and learn before it's to late! Save the "sex" for awhile will you! Give yourself the chance to be a "kid", before it's to late! Have fun, but leave the "sex" until you're "adult" enough to have a "real" relationship! That's a Mom speaking that doesn't want to see a young girls life get ruined,do the right thing Lilly! That's "growing" up!!!!!
2006-09-29 09:54:22 · answer #2 · answered by noditz57 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him trash your reputation. You will know the truth and that's what matters. Also, just stay away from him. Nobody has the right to make you feel bad about something that you don't feel is right.
2006-09-29 09:58:31 · answer #3 · answered by missyhardt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stop "sneaking around" with such a louse. You will not only regret giving into the pressure, it could have consequences that will ruin your life. (pregnancy, STD's, lost of reputation)
Hang with a group that has more interest in fun. Lose the bum.
2006-09-29 09:38:42 · answer #4 · answered by united9198 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is someone pressuring you into having sex steer clear of them. You don't want someone around you who is going to try and pressure you do things that you do not want to do!
2006-09-29 10:57:43 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lilly T,
Well Lilly I think you are confused, I read your first question and I think perhaps you need to slow down and get a fresh start with someone new.
TDCWH
2006-09-29 09:36:20 · answer #6 · answered by TDCWH 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE IS A MORON! I am 13 and I have not even truely KISSED a guy! (yet)Tell him to go and and find another person because you are NOT thet kind of person(in other words TELL HIM TO Fu*k OFF!!)
2006-09-29 10:58:59 · answer #7 · answered by LIL muffin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop sneaking, don't have sex, enlist the aid of your parents.
2006-09-29 09:26:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
now i know you are a fraud.. in one question you talk about how proud you are to be sexually active at 13 and if you should tell your friends then 30 seconds later you have this question?? fraud!
2006-09-29 09:25:26 · answer #9 · answered by pip 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am calling your parents, idiot! Stop posting these assinine questions.
2006-09-29 09:25:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋