what do you do if your parents dont let you date even if your 16? and you love the boy its either boy or?

Question

family?

Answer 1

Your parent make these decisions because they been there and they have done that, they know at there age what is best for you WHY? , only because they love you, if they didn't care what happen to to you they let you do what ever you wanted , that's why you have parents ..to guide you and help you until your mature enough to do whats right..

Please listen to them , you will never be sorry,

just listen to some of these questions some of these young girls ask, " Am I pregnant"? Do you know why they ask a question like that? because these kids have no supervision, your lucky that you have parents that love you and want to protect you from who knows what out there...

Answer 2

Hello, I've been 16 and I respect your feelings but you don't really love the boy. You are sexually attracted to him (even though you might not get explicit thoughts, that's still what it is) and it feels so strong you think it's love. I've been there, we all have. Those strong feelings eventually subside after a few years or so. Then a much more subtle and weak feeling takes the place of the intense one, like a very quiet sound in the middle of a bunch of noise. That's true love and I'm serious when I say this: it's impossible to know if you are in love for real until your strong feelings of infatuation go away in a few years or so.

Luckily the older you get the shorter it takes for those strong feelings to wear off. Ususally by the age of about 25 they only last about 18-24 months.

That's why you should never get married before the age of 25 and never to someone you've dated less than a year and a half to two years.

What you should do is invite him on family outings, then you can spend time together and your parent's won't feel like you are dating. Also tag along when his family does things, like movies or costco or anything! THe pont is to enjoy those feelings and spend as much time together as possible!

Anyway, the answers of the older people and your parents are not ignorant, they are the way things really are. Hopefully you will take our advice or learn this in a way that doesn't hurt you.

Answer 3

I am not going to make light of your feelings for this boy, but please try to think about this... Maybe your parents are being a bit tough here, but I don't know the boy. First thing I am going to do is tell you a secret about boys.... We only want one thing and this is true, no matter what we say or how honest or sincer we may sound or even mean to be.. If another woman comes up to us and offers us sex, we will take it, espically when we are teenagers.... I swear to you this is the truth and if you were smart you would stay away from us until we are at least 25 years old and even then, only a few of us start to mature or settle down... Next, no boy in the world is worth your family and if it comes to this, pick your family.. Think of what your parents have done and given you over the past 16 years....I wish there were some way I could make you see this differently... Just beleive me about us boys, we are pigs, with one thing on our mind and the brain in our penis is a million times stronger than our brain in our heads and can break the will of any 10 men... This is so true, beleive me, I am a guy.... Go ahead and ask a question like that on here and ask for real men, and real answers...I don't care if this kid writes you pomes, sends you flowers or saves the tears he cries for you... He will lie and he will cheat, and at this age, he will break your heart... You should be saying NO to all boys and then maybe just taking one home once in a while just to get your needs taken care of, I am telling you we are not capable of a normal relationship until at least the 25 mark and then , like i said all ready only a few..... I swear to GOD, and on my kids, that this is the truth. I no this is hard for you and I know the feelings are killer, I suggest listening to some music, getting some icecream and calling one of your friends over.... Maybe now would be a nice time to talk to your mom.. Beleive it or not she was 16 also once... They love you and no boy is worth your family. Boys will come and go, but your mom will always be there.. Good Luck and if ya need any help or a woman, just e-mail my wife Colleen at [e-mail] she is only 34 and would be willing to help...

Answer 4

Even though it may seem unfair, your parents are only trying to look out for your best interests. Try sitting them down, being completely honest about why you wanna date & how you feel about this boy. Sometimes parents just can't accept the fact that kids are getting older, but maybe if you can start proving yourself in other ways, they might let this boy become a part of your life.

Answer 5

If you relay like the boy, I think you owe it to him and you to wait until your parents do let you date. If you try to date behind their backs, your not going to be able to give him your full attention and neither of you will be able to experience what a good relationship feels like. Also at our age (I'm 17) our feelings aren't always the best guides because they're so out of whack at this age so you could make a mistake and end up ruining your relationship with your parents over something that you truly didn't feel in the first place. My advice: listen to your parents at lest for another year of two.

Answer 6

Definitely choose family, there will always be other boys. And besides, you can't be in love with someone you don't know. Your parents are smart, listen to them. There is no reason children need to date before 16 anyway.

Answer 7

relationship isn't the concern yet saying which you're in love and pointing out marragie is. have faith me i understand the type you're feeling. in spite of the undeniable fact that it maximum probable won't artwork out. i think of your mum and dad are doing you a desire via retaining you faraway from the discomfort disappointments would reason. there is not any extra desirable discomfort then believing you will spend something of your existence with somebody and then it not occurring. As for relationship , take a seat alongside with your paretns and ask them why they have made this rule. once you're close adequate tell them the type you sense. in the event that they nonetheless inform you to attend. gain this because of the fact they're your authority. besides in case you quite like this lady you may wait a 300 and sixty 5 days ... and if she quite enjoyed you , would not she wait too?

Answer 8

You really cant do anything. You are underage and you live with your parents so you follow their rules. Don't disobey them and maybe they will see that you are responsible enough and let you date this boy. But if its the boy they don't like and that's why they wont let you date them then they are probably right and you shouldn't. We don't like it but most of the time parents know best.

Answer 9

Don't plan to be in love forever with your first love. If it happens fine but many times it really does not last. Talk to your parents. Even if they just will allow you to invite the boy to dinner, that's a start right? Good luck. I agree if he is around your age you should be allowed to start dating.

Answer 10

I don't know but I wish someone would tell me.I am 16,almost 17,and am not allowed to date(I've never gone out with a guy even as just friends) unless it's behind my parents back.I do have a boyfriend(we have been together for 5 months),they just don't know it,I would love to tell them that I do and that we are in love but I can't and it makes me sad.I wish they would let me grow up so I don't have to sneak around.All kids don't want sex(I don't,I'm still a virgin),and parents should understand and trust us more.