what are the things other people do that make you furious?

Question

i get furious when people are beeing unfair and ungrateful to me
i get so angry that i want to cry because of it
i wish it didnt affect me so much but i cant help it

Answer 1

Girl24, I know exactly what you mean sweetie, there are so many, MUCH too many, mean, nasty unfair, and most ungrateful people (the list of wrongdoings is much too long to name them all), and when I was young, I had the same reaction...that's why I really wanted to answer this for you, to help you get over and deal with this in a less painful way...DO NOT give these people any energy...PAY NO attention, REMOVE yourself from contact with all known TOXIC people, and bear this in mind, when you KNOW your own mind, when you are sure who you are and that you are a decent, do unto others sort of gal, then YOU WILL KNOW that whenever you encounter these moronic bullies, it is ONLY their way of trying to make themselves feel better--it is ONLY a reflection on their own low self esteem and lack of character--DO NOT, I REPEAT, DO NOT buy into their own personal garbage problems, okay? If anyhting, nod knowingly at their personal issues, and feel bad for them...if you must react, just be kind and gentle and treat them as you would anyone with an IQ of about 50.

Answer 2

this question can have so many answers...I hate it when people are two faced they say one thing to your face and the opposite to the next person..i hate it when people are in such a hurry that they risk the lives of my kids and total strangers just to get somewhere on time...I hate that some people have no parenting skills at all and they leave their kids with total incompetent people who let the TV babysit for them...I hate it when people make promises and don't keep them...I hate it when money is the reason that some people can or can't get an education..I hate that this country doesn't have a medical plan for all US residents..I can go on and on and on but I agree I hate it when people are thankful and ungrateful...

Answer 3

I dislike hypocrites. Such as a friend who always called me when I was within five minutes of the specified time we were to meet. I may have been two minutes late or two minutes early but she'd still call me. Now she is in a relationship with someone and she is always late or doesnt show up. I went to her house to go to a wedding with her and she was still in her pjs, about to eat lunch It was a half hour till the wedding. We ended up not going.

Answer 4

That is frustrating, but it's something that will happen throughout life. It's something you have to learn to deal with unfortunately. It's never fair to be nice and accepting of others and not receive the same generosity.

If it really bothers you that much, seriously consider getting professional help for it. There's absolutely nothing wrong with getting help for it. People get professional help for much more trivial things (not that your issue is trivial at all).

I completely get why it frustrates you so you aren't alone.

Answer 5

I become furious when someone makes me late to an appointment that I would have otherwise been on time to.

(But, I shouldn't be furious because the Bible says Cease from anger, and forsake wrath.)

(And, the Bible says to forgive.)

Answer 6

Thats not a good trait, you just have to try and take it easy you cant let everything get to you, high blood pressure will folllow soon after

Answer 7

When people talk behind peole backs
When people make fun of others
When people bite their nails
When chima smells after lunch (eww its digustiing)

Answer 8

People who talk too much, esp. my better half. I can go outside & come in & he is still talking. I am not missed. He doesnt need a live person to talk to.

Answer 9

I do agree with the things that you mentioned but I would also like to add, being too needy and being too pushy and being a liar!!

Answer 10

I agree with you, that is very upsetting.

I can't stand it when somebody says they'll be somewhere and they don't show up. Major Pet Peeve.