When having vaginal sex, does it bother you if a little lube is needed? My sex buddy seems a little peeved when I reach for the lube... like he thinks he's not doing it for me. I told him it's not him at all. It's actually the birth control pills that dry me up. Would it bother you?
2006-09-29 09:07:37 · 12 answers · asked by ☆skyblue 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He is an insecure loser. The more lube the better!
2006-09-29 09:10:33 · answer #1 · answered by joelrnic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn't bother me at all, however on the other hand if I get too much lube on (baby oil) then it's too slippery and the tightness doesn't feel as tight and then I start to lose the stiffness till some of the lube wears off. Certain drugs will make a woman dry up along with some women with hysterectomies. Even after a little while after putting the lube on the first time I have had to do it again as it wore off. Thats totally normal for you to be dried up using birth control. Thats why people made lube, it's common, and if every woman was wet then there would be no need to sell lube, but it's normal like I said before.
2006-09-29 16:25:43 · answer #2 · answered by WV_Nomad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, wouldn't bother me at all. There are many circumstances where there can be a need for lube and they are normal things that aren't tied to any ones abilities or sexiness. Sounds like your buddy needs to grow up and learn there is a lot more to sex than what he knows.
2006-09-29 16:11:05 · answer #3 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm not sure. Why don't you come over, we can test it out and see? lol.
No, if it bothers him, he's a selfish bastard. You need to find a new man who won't be distressed over getting a fine piece from someone such as yourself, even if you need a little help with the wetness.
2006-09-29 16:13:04 · answer #4 · answered by noir 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't bother a guy; each woman is different, and he should realize that (unless he's not experienced enough to realize that).
Plus, to make it interesting and fun, turn it into foreplay somehow. Maybe tell him you want him to watch while you stimulate yourself or something. If that doesn't rev him up, find a new man :)
2006-09-29 16:11:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't bother me. You must take the same pills as my wife. Same problem occurs for her, but I don't mind the lubrication at all. Works better for us both.
2006-09-29 16:10:58 · answer #6 · answered by hulkster524 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No bother at all, however if you put it on and he wants to travel South of the Border, the taste is quit nasty
2006-09-29 16:26:36 · answer #7 · answered by Ask the Chef 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a problem both parties need to be comfortable and should be grateful that you are trying to make it so. I think you need to reevaluate this person
2006-09-29 16:37:01 · answer #8 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha!...Doesn't phase me in the least. Frankly...the more slippery...the better..heh, heh.
Plus....what's he trying to do....gain enough friction to set your "you-know-what" on fire?
Men....sometimes they're so stupid
2006-09-29 16:13:26 · answer #9 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as I can share my seed with you, it is no problem.
2006-09-29 16:11:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋