if he has a good relationship, and the sex is great, at home
no major problems that I know of , I thought everything was going fine??
2006-09-29 09:05:16 · 23 answers · asked by Sheena 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
this question is not about me, I work as a bartender, and I see this happening all the time, with couples I know, it really makes me think about my relationship with my husband, and I wonder could this happen to me?? thanks for all your answers, and please be nice
2006-09-29 11:05:28 · update #1
some people need that attention or reassurance that they still have it. I'm sure it has nothing to do with your or your sex life. Women are beautiful and I'm sure a man has those kinds or urges towards other women. He is not a good enough man for you... find someone better that treats you like a queen
2006-09-29 09:07:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Different reasons men stray. Some want more passion. Some hate the routine. Some are curious about being with someone more or less attractive. Some men stray because we are all biologically driven to it. Some men might have a higher testosterone level than others and therefore need to spread their seed as far and as often as possible. Still, others might have psychological issues and insecurities and feel the need to receive love from any and everyone they possibly can.
Just don't blame yourself. It's not always the woman's fault. Some men suffer from weakness of the flesh.
2006-09-29 09:09:38 · answer #2 · answered by noir 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you were living together he might have realized the kind of commitment he needs to make and got a little nervous and backed out. Guys don't like the thought of commitment because it requires a lot from them and its a huge step which can be frightening. He might have just wanted to take a break from the thoughts of commitment and then the idea of a no strings relationship was too strong of a temptation. You should talk to him, communication is very important. Don't pressure him to do anything or make any commitments, make sure you know his opinion on the situation and coax him into it.
I hope this helps.
2006-09-29 09:14:25 · answer #3 · answered by Michael H 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You did nothing to make him stray....... he did that on his own. Men today in todays society make it really hard to have faith in a faithful man..... I am so sorry, and I bet everything was perfectly fine. First of all, a man does NOT need a reason to cheat or leave his woman for another woman. If that woman is any kind of woman at all, and she found out about you, she would drop him like a hot potatoe and make him feel as worthless as he should feel for hurting you like that. It will get easier and you will move on to better things and better men in your life. I know you are going to be just fine. Blessed be................ raise your chin and smile, you are a one in a million and this is his loss, his choice, and your freedom to find someone that really loves you..........
2006-09-29 09:58:34 · answer #4 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Alot of men always want more. You can give and give and nothing will ever be enough. But maybe he isnt the right man if he strays and dont let him keep u bound if he does coz there are plenty more out there that will be faithful to you.
2006-09-29 09:09:29 · answer #5 · answered by Jen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing makes a man stray. Cheating is a conscious decision, it's not an accident. Its a sign of low moral character and values and is the most selfish act one partner can commit on the other.
2006-09-29 09:07:41 · answer #6 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First off, most (not all) men are pigs. They always think that the grass is greener on the other side. That's not always the case though, many men who stray never wish to do it again. I think the most important thing to realize is that a man is just that, a man.
2006-09-29 09:08:18 · answer #7 · answered by Baby B 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most men just get tired of one woman. There is very few no matter what someone tells you if given the chance want stray. It's the animal in them, I'm talking both sexes not just men.
2006-09-29 09:09:58 · answer #8 · answered by Nicki 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So you thought. Why not ask? What have you got to lose? You'll either get the answer you're looking for or a lie. Hmmm..maybe a combination of the two.
You're NOT going to find the answer to your question here...that's for sure.
2006-09-29 09:07:57 · answer #9 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is that thing in between his legs. Men who have everything they say they want still cheat. We have to make it worth there while to stay or make them sorry when they do stray. I do not know of many men that would say no to a free ride.
It is NOT our fault.
2006-09-29 09:11:33 · answer #10 · answered by rollerbabe 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋