my husband acts diffrent and its like everything that is said or anything he gats mad.and if any one touches his things around the house he says they steal everything and dont know how to ask.is he still in love with me or has it turn to hate.
2006-09-29 09:03:11 · 10 answers · asked by bigmomma s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
His love has turned to hate. He sees you as his mother. It is the mother complex that wives turn in to.
2006-09-29 09:06:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him, also be prepared for the answer. Ask him if he wants to work it out. He sounds more depressed than anything. He needs help and you both need marriage councelling. It sounds like it is more whatever is going on with him than anything you are doing. If he depressed, it would not matter how happy tou tried to make him, he would still be upset about something. Something could've happened at work. Ask him what is wrong. Suggest some outside help. That is all you can do until you know for sure what is upsetting him.
2006-09-29 09:23:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe reflect on how you are treating him. Are you still treating him like he is the center of the universe, or have life and kids gotten in the way of that. Maybe you could really look at that, and change your habits. You May also want to see if he has any bad habits, alcohol, drugs, porn etc... Maybe you could go to a good counselor( one who does not trash men) and they can help him. Just remember that you can't control how he acts, but you can control how you act.
2006-09-29 09:08:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
communication is key, talk to him if you can, he may be suffering from stress or depression, all classic symptoms of what you describe, good news if he is as that is treatable, not been in love with you isn't, give him the benefit of the doubt, try to find the root of the problem and take it from there, if he has fallen out of love with you then you have a choice, try to get that love back, or call it a day, sounds simple doesn't it, I know it isn't, but the ball is well and truly in your court here.
2006-09-29 09:21:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All depends, do you work and make more that he does? if not do live in CA, if not, does his passion for you seem mechanical, if so, then he probably has someone else on the side. A "friend". I say this because I'm living the nightmare, my wife cheated and know the state of California is rewarding her, royally I might add for "scr--ing around!, yeah clean him out, wipe him down until his knees bleed, but if you make more that he does, hell just grin and bear it! Save you some money........................................
2006-09-29 09:13:41 · answer #5 · answered by John H B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you need to just be direct with him and ask. If you beat around the bush you could just aggravate the situation even more.
2006-09-29 09:05:30 · answer #6 · answered by shominyyuspa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you want to know, that you should ask him. If you are afraid to ask him then there is some kind of a problem in your relationship.
2006-09-29 09:10:54 · answer #7 · answered by wombat_kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he gets mad at any little thing some things definitely wrong he might have have alot of pressure or maybe its just guilt.
2006-09-29 09:12:16 · answer #8 · answered by CURIOUS1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes going through male menapause---take his grumpy butt to a counselor----meanwhile do your own thing
2006-09-29 09:05:39 · answer #9 · answered by darkangel1111 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants more sex from you, and different positions
2006-09-29 09:11:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋