Why is it so hard to be kind and not judge people physically but for who they are inside?

Answer 1

because some people appears diifrent to what inside them
some people looks giant and scary to us
but if u looked inside them u will find sweet hearts with very kind emotions
and some people appears outside as kind , sweet , queit but some times they hid inside them deviels

Answer 2

because it takes experience and time to understand the importance of the individual's mind and personality, not *just* their appearance. therefore, as u grow up, more kids in school and high school go thru extreme "torture" and ups and downs regarding acceptance/rejection =T. it's a learning experience, and what u go thru kinda helps determine how open minded and strong u are as an adult. which is why it's so important for the family at home to teach strong values; the world doesn't have time to do things for individuals, but the family at home should take care of their own children, and work their way outwards. we need to encourage our kids to be more outgoing, friendly, open minded, helpful, courteous, etc, all those things, regardless of the teasing and miseducation WE as parents (or future parents) have experienced. instead of passing on the same old, tired stereotypes and judgements and prejudice we have, allow our children to develop their own minds and opinions, but guiding them to always seek what is Good, Healthy, Positive, and Happy. :) good luck to us all.. sometimes i get scared of the idea of having to raise a child "right" (what about peer pressure, other kids, bad influences at school etc)....but in the end, it will be one of the most important things i can try my best to do.

Answer 3

This tends to go away once you get out of high school. It still exists to some degree but for the most part, as you grow up, things get better. It has a lot to do with you - just letting what other people think of you go.

Answer 4

Because it takes time to get to know someone, and you can make a physical judgement in 10 seconds.

(women decide within 10 seconds of meeting a guy whether he is dating material or not).

Answer 5

because sometimes a person's personality cannot make up for their physical appearence. And also no one wants to have children with someone who is not physically attractive.

Answer 6

It's not a matter of being difficult, it's a matter of putting forth the effort. Many people don't want to put in the effort which is their loss.

Answer 7

some can't read passed the cover of the book.

Answer 8

cuz some act three year old fools