2006-09-29 08:42:40 · 26 answers · asked by bingokell 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Royalty
Yes, as soon you have the baby, he is going bye-bye on you. Don't waste your time with this guy, honey!
2006-09-29 09:31:36 · answer #1 · answered by Sakura ♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well that may be b/c getting married b/c you are pregnant is the right reason to get married. If he is forced into a marriage, it probably will not last. He can be a wonderful father and love his child very much without being married to you. The focus is the child now, not you. If the two of you are together as a couple then let it play out. If everything is going well with you two it may happen. Maybe you should ask him if he ever wants to get married, that should be taken into consideration as well. Most importantly let him be a great father, the marriage part will fall into place when the time is right. If you find that you all are a happy family, that may put things in perspective for him.
2006-09-29 08:56:12 · answer #2 · answered by KD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget it lady, you dont agree anyway or you would not be sharing this dilema with us right. Somebody who does not want marriage with someone is not interested with you neither so honey don't waste your time the good guys are out there. Do you want to be a single mum with no support. Dont get your self into a messy life with no support. Are you studying if you are well done get a education and a life and a career. Then you will meet like minded educated people and hopefully Mr right will arrive do something for yourself a better life is just round the corner.You seem a young girl you have plenty of time for baby and marriage.
2006-09-29 08:56:58 · answer #3 · answered by nicecupofteanicecupofcoffee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a great idea! And of course, if he doesn't want marriage, he is willing to sign a contract that he will be responsible for the support of this child, for its education, for ensuring that the mother is cared for, and he will doubtless be on hand to help walk the baby at night when it's teething, and wash its poopy diapers when mom is just bushed, and all those other little odds and ends?
Oh -- he didn't mention that? Odd. It must just be an oversight.......
2006-09-29 13:30:02 · answer #4 · answered by old lady 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
find out what he thinks of marriage, does he value it as much as you. Do you even want to be married. I dont know your situation but if he wants to have child I think he is being sincere about that, and if you two have been together for a while and this is something that you both want, go for it, i dont think he will you like everyone else says. Good Luck
2006-09-29 21:08:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a baby out of wedlock as I never wanted to be married then when my son was born it made me feel different and we got married when our son was 9 months and we have been married 19 years now
2006-09-29 08:51:13 · answer #6 · answered by Figgy N Pluto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he cant have a baby. the commitment is all yours. think about what you want out of life. after all you obviously have doubts about his commitment to you or you wouldn't be asking this question. remember a child is a major change in your life it is not a major change in his. dont get left holding the baby.
2006-09-29 09:06:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sugar, this is your call and only you should decide where you want to go with this. Do you really need this media to answer this question?
You have to decide if you want that sort of relationship and is it strong enough to sustain longevity. Your child WILL need a dad when growing up.
2006-10-01 04:01:32 · answer #8 · answered by Des 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who saids you have to be married to have a baby...many people raise children who are not married.
a good portion of marriages end up in divorce anyway. so if you can live together and have children go for it.
i think having a child is a good idea. go for it. you are only young once.
2006-09-29 14:53:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well he basically just wants sex, and to have a child with no full-time responsibility to the child and no commitment to you. Tell him to bugger off.
2006-09-29 08:46:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋