and why. Explain. Finding people who only want this is one of life's greatest challenges when we want to meet people to share our entire lives with.
2006-09-29 08:39:27 · 6 answers · asked by snorkelman_37 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Those are GREAT components.
I'd also encourage people to read/see/hear "Love and Respect" by Emerson Eggrichs
Why? We all have unmet expectations. Those can lead to disappointment and disillusionment. Communication is important, and is the path to solving those conflicts, or explaining the unmet expectation. BUT communication can be toxic if done wrong.
Friendship, Kindness and compassion mean the communication is EFFECTIVE at resolving problems, and encouraging the other person.
2006-09-29 08:43:24 · answer #1 · answered by Iridium190 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I agree!, that is like trying to find a needle in a haystack. I guess I'm understanding your question right, is it you want to know why this person seems not to exist? The older you get the more deepness you look for in a person, when your young it's the body and looks, you can be an air head and a user it wont matter cause "Damn your Hot!!!". The reason I believe we have such a hard time finding the qualities we want are WE WANT THE WHOLE PACKAGE and in to days society we can't find it. To me the people are getting worse the drugs have taking over we have addictive personalities every where gambling,drugs, theft killing,molesting. The bottom line is people are lacking in RESPECT and SELF RESPECT they will screw you in a heart beat, look you square in the eye and lie to you and swear upon it.I want to know were the kindness went? people are so rude. What is genuine friendship? well my friend it's very hard to find but I promise you we are still out there I know I personally am a rare breed but I'm very proud of who I am and how I treat others. Wish you great luck on finding the person to spend your life with.
2006-09-29 16:07:12 · answer #2 · answered by SANCY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have this with my psychiatrist, my friends who rush me to the hospital, and probably 2/3rds of my last congregation.
This is an excellent summation of Philos - friendship love, brotherloy love cf. Platonic Love.
The Greeks added Erotic Love for the mere sight of you makes my heart beat like the U2 drummer. Your touch sends seismographs in Sumatra nuts. We'll stop there.
Agape Love is for the sacred and the human.
Tip your pizza delivery boy extra, call him every Thursday night, and you can have all of this.
Find someone your age with this and kiss their cheeck and then lay your head on their shoulder.
2006-09-29 15:50:57 · answer #3 · answered by Joe Cool 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-09-29 15:41:26 · answer #4 · answered by Putt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, I agree
2006-09-29 15:47:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep very much.
2006-09-29 15:57:00 · answer #6 · answered by Miss-Kenya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋