I'm talking about people you've cheated with that were so irresitable, that you never thought you could feel that way around anyone like that person. It's as if you've met each other before. And you don't want to cheat, but their existance plagues your mind so deeply, you'd feel foolish if you don't be with them. I ask, was it worth it to be with that person?
Why or why not?
2006-09-29 08:37:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Violet Pearl - Haha, Violet, you make it sound as if I'm personally having thoughts and hopes of cheating, hahaha. It's just a question.
2006-09-29 11:39:35 · update #1
No it's not worth it, well at the time it's great. After it's all said and done your just left with thoughts of guilt. Normally when someone is cheated on, it always somehow get's back to the significant other.
This is what happened in my case, he found out and was devastated. I would never want to hurt someone like that ever again, nor would I want to feel that betrayal of beong cheated on.
My advice if you feel like cheating, it's best if you break up with the one your with and then pursue the other relationship.
2006-09-29 08:44:24 · answer #1 · answered by devildollbaby 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years, and recently decided to not live together anymore, and ever since that happened, we find eachother irresistable. Every time we see eachother we pounce and rip eachothers close off. It is an amazing feeling, but if I can esstablish it with my man, there is no need to feel that way with another person. And when you have a passion like that, the sex is always incredible.
2006-09-29 08:41:31 · answer #2 · answered by MaNdYb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was laughing so hard, it took me a minute to type this answer. What a lame excuse-- "you couldn't resist"? No wait, this excuse is even lamer --"their existance plagues your mind so deeply, you'd feel foolish if you don't be with them." What kind of moron has no self-control and can't keep their pants on???
No, it's never worth it to allow "someone else" to make you into a lying, cheater with no self-respect. Is getting laid that important to you?
2006-09-29 08:41:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, because I have been dating him for 2 years now.
2006-09-29 08:40:11 · answer #4 · answered by Kiri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no b/c I really liked my bf and it took cheating to realize I didn't like him as much as I thought I did. It was awful. I learned my lesson and I'm never cheating again.
2006-09-29 08:41:15 · answer #5 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I did once in my early twenties and I was drunk. No it wasn't worth it at all. All I had was many thoughts of guilt and shame.
2006-09-29 09:20:34 · answer #6 · answered by Linda R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's worth it because, I'll hate to look back some day and regret the fact that I didn't. I'll rather regret the fact that I did.
2006-09-29 08:41:26 · answer #7 · answered by Bantree 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well yes and no! i mean i am really happy that it happened but in 2 years i had lost both of them let me tell you it did not feel good!
2006-09-29 08:44:15 · answer #8 · answered by sugersugersuger4ever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but even if I had Brad Pitt telling me that he wants to have sex with me, I wouldn't cause I love my husband!!
2006-09-29 08:41:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Break up with the person you're with before you cheat. You (and she/he) will respect yourself more for it.
2006-09-29 08:41:37 · answer #10 · answered by writerchick 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋