why is my boyfriend so worried that when we fight i am going to cheat on him>?.. .. ive never gave him any reason to think that.. and he says for xmas he wants to get me a diamond ring and he is so0o worried witch one to get and if ill like it.... what his is deal
2006-09-29 08:36:25 · 16 answers · asked by ludy_bell_2005 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He is very insecure in the relationship. I'd guess that he also has low self esteem.
2006-09-29 08:39:26 · answer #1 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess he feels he doesn't deserve to be happy or have the good things in life. He might feel like an imposter or phoney even. As far as the cheating thing goes though, trust issues can be caused by untrustworthiness. In other words, uh, he might feel the relationship essentially ends when you fight, and that he might cheat if he had the opportunity.
Heck, talk with him though instead of us about this lol.. How could we know?
2006-09-29 15:40:12 · answer #2 · answered by moment_in_passing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems to be insecure about your relationship. Perhaps he's had 1 bad experience too many. If you have the patience and desire to help him change, congratulations -- just try to get to the root of the matter and find ways to convince him that it won't happen this time. If you don't (since it can be difficult or even impossible), congratulations also -- you don't have to suffer from his insecurities anymore.
2006-09-29 15:43:27 · answer #3 · answered by puppy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, he probably understands women are not to be trusted. You are creatures controlled almost completely by your emotions, so when you get in a fight, he thinks you will look for another guy to screw because you are so distraught. In the past he has probably slept with women who had just gotten in a fight with their boyfriends, so he knows what you women will do when angry or upset.
2006-09-29 15:40:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sounds like he has been cheated on.... Just make him feel secured of your love for him.. but tell him that his insecurity is driving you crazy and if you guys ever break up is for his insecurities and not because you will cheat on him or cheated on him.
2006-09-29 15:39:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you have a boyfriend who truly loves you. and he is worried that he will lose you there are not to many people in this world who will put there feelings into their thoughts and he sounds like he will always put you before anyone else
2006-09-29 15:54:01 · answer #6 · answered by Cheezy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds very insecure. He might have bad history with love. Good luck
2006-09-29 15:39:04 · answer #7 · answered by rollerbabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he thinks you are too good for him,
he doesnt want to lose you
he loves you very much
he wants to give you the world but he cant therefore he feels that you are gonna find some one else
2006-09-29 15:39:04 · answer #8 · answered by SemiLOOSE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is insecure and worried to lose you because he probably loves you a lot and doesnt think that he is good enough or he just doesnt trust you...
2006-09-29 15:41:48 · answer #9 · answered by Wlr Steve 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes seems like he doesnt have much confidence. Have you talked to him about this? Maybe if you would he may feel better about it?
2006-09-29 15:40:18 · answer #10 · answered by kevin T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋