It's driving me nuts!! I have trying to figure out if my Husband's Ex is doing stuff just because she wants to a b***h or if it's because she jealous. They have been divorced for at least 10 years now and SHE remarried first about 3 or 4 years ago.Me and my Hubby have been together for 2 years and just got married 1 month ago.The thing that is driving me nuts is that she seems to always try to undermine me ...for example I tried to shedule family pics (with the 2 teen age daughters that the Ex and my Hubby have together) and she decides at the last minute that she wants to pick THAT NIGHT to have dinner with the kids.As it turned out the kids told her they rather do the pics than go to dinner. It seems like she is always trying to come up with an excuse to be an interruption. But why? It's not like she hasn't been able to move on after the divorce I mean it has been 10 YEARS and she is remarried to some else..so what is her problem? Anyone else going through this kind stuff? HELP
2006-09-29 08:35:18 · 11 answers · asked by sugarsweeteegrl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
things like this happened all the time... it happened to me.... and it's going to happened to somebody else.... there are some women who don't like to see other people happy.... they don't even know what they want....
Try to ignored her... that's the best thing to do... she is trying to ruin your life using her kids..... show her you are more mature than her.... wherever she does... don't let her see you get mad or don't let her see it upsets you... eventually she is gonna realize there is nothing she can do to break you two apart....
2006-09-29 08:52:15 · answer #1 · answered by perinsesu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, how I feel for you, but you are one step ahead of me...my fiance's ex won't even allow his child to visit us at our home so we are still doing the whole court battle. Anyway, I have chalked it up to jealousy. Don't matter whether or not she still wants him, but rather she doesn't want to see him happy and know that he has gone on with his life. Have you tried talking to her? If not, then next time don't tell her what your plans are, have the girls come over as normal and get dressed at your house, then have the pics taken. Good luck!
2006-09-29 08:52:56 · answer #2 · answered by mvngs 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Re-marrying does not always mean she moved on. Is she jealous? YES! What should you do? Learn to anticipate how she would react to what ever you plan and work to beating it. Since you married the man, she will be in your life for a long time.
2006-09-29 09:06:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not about you personally or your hubby its about her and the kids. She is jealous of any time you get to spend with them. Up until recently she didn't have to worry about anyone being mom with them but herself.
I can't think of any easy fix for this because its emotion and talk will not help.
2006-09-29 08:46:20 · answer #4 · answered by ly_rose 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if she is jealous.....she see's that her ex is happy with his new wife and she ( the ex) is trying so hard to break you two apart and see him misable. She is wasting too much time in yall relationship then her own.....that's what it looks like to me. She better be careful or her now husband would leave her and she would be the one who is misable. Have you talked it over with your husband? What does he say about the situation?
2006-09-29 08:41:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she is alittle jealous of you.. She maybe afraid that the kids like you more than their real mom so that why she is schedule the event the same day as yours...
2006-09-29 08:39:30 · answer #6 · answered by funkysha916 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Learn from this. Tell no one anything until the last minute.
She is just trying to push buttons. IF she knows it is bothering you she will cont. if you act like it is no big deal - it should stop.
2006-09-29 08:44:21 · answer #7 · answered by WhatNext 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is acting like a typical ex wife. Suck it up this is what you have to deal with to be with someone else's cast off.
2006-09-29 08:43:44 · answer #8 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't think she is jealous but I do think she it trying to inconvenience your life
2006-09-29 08:40:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Because....and to put it bluntly....she's a rotten *****. that's why. She can't feel good about herself unless she being a sh*t to you or no doubt more specifically...him.
See...it's no wonder he divorced the psycho tramp.
2006-09-29 08:40:09 · answer #10 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋