I found a number that he has called several times and for longer than normal talk times. He is a truck driver so there are always new numbers but this one shows up repeatedly. When i asked him who it is, he gets mad a me and says that i don't trust him, and that he has no idea whose number it is. What do i do?
2006-09-29 08:33:49 · 39 answers · asked by Unsure? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Call the phone company and verify it belongs on your bill. If they haven't made a mistake, call it and find out who it is. Dial *67 first so if they have caller ID they can't call you and give you a hard time back!!!
Good luck!
2006-09-29 08:37:25 · answer #1 · answered by Coo coo achoo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would feel threatened if you were my girlfriend/wife also. Even if I'm not cheating or even if I have no desire to cheat on you, I would get mad also. I'm sure you either don't trust him, or you have low self-esteem because you are creating this into to something that it doesn't need to be. Put this into perspective for yourself: between driving trucks, and seeing you and in between all of the time he has in his life, does he even have enough time to cheat on you or whatever? If I were you, I'd tread lightly in this area. What you are doing can make him think you don't trust him, then you'll think that he really is interested in someone else. Then if he doesn't think you trust him, he will start to keep even small things from you so he can avoid confrontation.... but what has to be done is you have to let it go and tell him that you trust him, cuz if you guys are having a good relationship it is unnecessary for you to get upset.
Now what I should ask you is did you find it on the phone bill? I hope so, cuz you have some problems and he would be right to accuse you of not trusting him if you snooped around on his cell phone.
2006-09-29 08:43:27 · answer #2 · answered by gregthedesigner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the number
2006-09-29 08:53:00 · answer #3 · answered by Sausage Fingers™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the number.
2006-09-29 08:36:00 · answer #4 · answered by PrettyProblem 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In the first place your suspicions are well grounded.
Call the number, during the daytime and say your number was on my caller ID. I thought it was my daughter calling from her friends house.
Try making the conversation last long enough to see if you can learn anything.
You do know the area code, so you can find out from the phone company what state it is in. Has your husband been making runs to that state???
2006-09-29 08:39:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any reason to not trust him?
You can look it up in the reverse white pages online as long as it's not a cell number, or you can simply call the number.
Be sure you're ready for the answer to your question, and the consequences of not trusting.
2006-09-29 09:05:48 · answer #6 · answered by toomeymimi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the numbers and pretend you are looking for someone at that number, Make up a name! This is the only way you are going to find out who it is, if they give a name, then you can ask him who so and so is? I wouldn't trust him neither! Men think us women are so dumb, when they are the dumb ones!
2006-09-29 08:42:17 · answer #7 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something smells fishy there. There is no reason for him to fly off the handle when asked a question unless you have something to hide.
If you really want to know who is on the other end of that phone I would wait till he is far away from HIS phone. ANd call the number yourself from HIS phone that way the caller on the other end wouldnt know if it was you adn would assume it was him calling. Then you will get your answer
Good Luck
2006-09-29 08:36:39 · answer #8 · answered by Kit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is lying because of the number is on there several times than he as to know who it is, he might be cheating on you. You need to ask him that and if he gets mad than most likely he is cheating on you. then that is when you let him go, but find out if he really is cheating on you and why? before you do that
2006-09-29 08:36:45 · answer #9 · answered by Pumpkin Nickel Bread 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ooh, that suck to be in your shoes,, Umm, why don't you call the number to see if it's a man or a woman... If it's a woman he have some explaining to do... I mean he should know this number if he call several times .. He maybe be lying ...
2006-09-29 08:37:01 · answer #10 · answered by funkysha916 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋