I haven't seen him in ages and I've been married for ages myself. It just feels rather odd.....does anyone else empathise?
2006-09-29 08:31:16 · 16 answers · asked by gerbiltamer 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Quasimodo (apt name!) get a life yourself!!!
2006-09-29 09:44:42 · update #1
You still have feelings for him and that is natural, you can't just turn your feelings off and on like a tap. Even though you are married you can't get rid of that little spark inside even though we would like too.
2006-09-29 09:01:32 · answer #1 · answered by GaryUKB 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I remember feeling crushed when I found out my ex got married. however how dare I. I was married at the time myself. so why did it hurt. well I guess deep down I still loved him, and I always would. so yes I empathise.
2006-09-29 09:55:29 · answer #2 · answered by hatfieldnomi 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
probs because he didnt want to marry u (dont mean that in a bad way ! ) its a part of self doubt like why wasnt i marriage material ? whats she got that i havent ? etc. dont feel bad, its probs nothing to do u with u, men dont go looking for a wife (well most dont ) they go by how they feel at that time or whatever, remember all the things he did that annoyed u or probs would have over time and thank ur lucky stars its not u haha hope it helps :)
2006-09-29 11:11:59 · answer #3 · answered by melly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do people keep in touch with former lovers? Did you? In my case it's because when I am lonely it is easier to fall into a familiar pair of arms for comfort and when one of those doors closes, it can be a bit disconcerting.
2006-09-29 21:25:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree i saw my ex the other day and we get on just like we did when we went out the banter and laughter is still there but i have been married 23 years she never married.I don't think we ever wonder what if.. but it is a weird feeling like you said.
2006-09-29 15:02:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is strange. Is strange happy or sad or mad or jealouse, what is the feeling. So you feel strange do you. Tell your present husband you feel strange about your last partner getting married. That will curb your "strange" feeling. You just want your cake and eat it, you are .......jealouse and posesive and not nice. You really are a mess. report me for abuse, i do not care, but you are a mess if that is how you feel. see a doctor
2006-09-29 18:10:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have an awful lot of time on your hands if you dwell on this.
Unlike the dip who says "You still love him"....you don't and what a stupid remark to make.
Get on with your life. If you can't stop thinking about this then you must lead a terribly dull life. Save your energies for more useful things.
2006-09-29 08:57:39 · answer #7 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's natural to feel that way. I don't know I think they once belong to you and you still just get that strange feeling, I know I do. It just last when you first you are told, you sorta feel, what they are mine, how dare them
2006-09-29 08:50:24 · answer #8 · answered by Nicki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, it's not that you still like him, as a woman, the universe revolves around you, therefore he is sooooooo not allowed to find happiness before you. That's the law.... well, as a woman that's the way i see it.
2006-09-29 08:41:26 · answer #9 · answered by abi_sweetgirl23 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I am in what I consider a very happy, healthy relationship and yet when I knew he was dating someone it bothered me immensely.
2006-09-29 08:34:25 · answer #10 · answered by Mee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋