should i have done it?

Question

me and my bf of 6 years just broke up i mean litary just a few minuets ago me and him have had some serious issues we fight about everything but i still love him and he still loves me so he says and we have 1 child together what should i do i am losing my mind please any advise will help right now

Answer 1

counseling. ASAP

Answer 2

You may want to seperate for a short time to see if you may be able to sort through your problems. Children do not always understand and usually place the blame on themselves even though they are not the reason. Love is there because it is convenient, you are used to eachother, dont get me wrong you probably have true love but the seperation will conclude the facts. By seperating now can cause a better friendship in the future which is something you NEED to have for the sake of the child. Good luck I hope you make the right choice!

Answer 3

Write down or tape record your feelings, get it out of your system, after you stop crying. Then go do something fun with your child and in about an hour look back at what you wrote and maybe you'll see things a little clearer. Good Luck!

Answer 4

make a clean break. Sell the kid on the black market or put it up for adoption.

When you break up, you are hurt, so your mind will leap to what is familiar and you will want to grasp for what you feem as familiar. When you miss him, it is not love, it is your mind seeking out the familiar.

Make a clean break and get away. Get rid of any and all reminders of him and don't give in to the desire to call him. No booty calls, no reconciliations. If you broke up its for a reason. If you were fighting all the time it is most likely a logical one and you should have broken up long before.

Answer 5

My first thought was dump him for good, but because there is a child involved, for the sake of this child, maybe give him one more chance, but you need to set your guidelines down and tell him what you want out of this relationship. If he agrees to whatever your needs are then give it another try. If he doesn't want to agree to anything then leave him for good. Relationships are based on communication, compromising and saying what your needs are to each other.

Answer 6

I would give it time.. If it's to that pint that you both fight and argue over everything, you should have your space... Maybe sometime apart will make you miss each other more, and appreciate one another... Try not to be spiteful.. Let him see his kid.. try to be as peaceful as possible.

Answer 7

I think that you both are really upset. Don't leave him or let him leave you for a long time. cause you both might mess up so please just go calm down then sit down and talk it out. Cause people do stupid things out of spite when they are upset with each other... Talking is key. Your both in love

Answer 8

you need to follow your heart. no one but you can tell you what to do. if you love him thats fine....but maybe youll find someone you love more...or maybe you two just need some time apart and he will eventually come back around....that is what happened with me...i mean me and the man of my baby arent back together....but i have a good feeling we will be shortly!

Answer 9

cool off for a while, attempt to talk it over and resolve issues--6 yrs a long road to leave if you can work it out---especially for your child

Answer 10

If he treats you right, you should try to reconcile. Otherwise, forget about him. But whatever you do, make sure he's still in your life to see your child.

Answer 11

try to work it out. if think that you cant work it out then is better to move on is not good for your child to see you guys arguing all the time.