I knew my bf thru mutual friend & after some time, w/o seen each other b4, we decide to go into the relationship. On 1st meeting, he told me his preference is smaller size gal & he would like us to go out few times b4 he decide to go into the rs. I was so sad cos he is so superficial. Then he knew he is in the wrong & we decided to give the rs a try.
Last sat, we quarreled. He said it is normal for a guy to want to have a gd looking gf, so that he can show off to his friends. The reason why he is sticking with me is becoz of my personality. He said he did not find much faults with me. Since I am alrdy dieting & he knows I got gastric, so he stopped me frm dieting. He said I am a hunchback & he heard frm me it is dangerous to have surgery, so he did not bring it up. He said I am also intendin to remove my front tooth & the moles, not tat he is forcin me to remove, just tat he will hint nw & then. He said he is very confident he can get pretty gal as gf.
Shld I continue with him
2006-09-29 07:27:43 · 9 answers · asked by ID t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He told me he is confident to get beautiful gal for gf. I no longer know if he still loves me or not. I find tat he still prefers smaller sized gals, prettier & cute ones. I no longer know or understand why he is still stickin with me. Cos he has been correctin me, physically & characteristics. I told him my confidence dipped cos of his criticisms. He tells me not to blame my low self-esteem at him. No matter hw fierce our quarrels are, I would not criticize him the way he criticize me. I really don’t understand why he would do this to me.
Ever since we quarrel on last sat, he refused to c me (even tho I waited for 1.5hrs at his hse void deck) or talked to me. We only communicate thru msn. He said he love me still. But he wants to think if we are compatible or nt & to him, he cant stand my losin temper (despite I told him I will change).
I dunno shld i continue the rs or nt. cos the quarrel on sat is the last straw. I hate him for hurtin me & yet I cant bear to end tis 1.5yr rs
2006-09-29 07:41:30 · update #1
oh my god! get rid of him. you can find someone that loves you for who you are and not just for what you look like. you dont need someone to put you down all the time. tell him to hit the road and you'll feel much better about yourself
2006-09-29 07:31:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This guy is a complete jerk. I hope you know (and I believe you already do) know that you should not continue anything with this moron.
Sounds like he believes he is doing you a favor by dating you. If he can get a pretty gf, fine, why don't you show him the door?
The gastric bypass can be really successful, I know two people that have had that one has gone from a sixe 28 to a 12 in one year, and the other from a 22 to 10 in the same time frame. Right now you need to focus on you and you only.
Kick that bozo to the curb!!!
Good Luck to you!!!
2006-09-29 07:32:31 · answer #2 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow it sounds like you got the worse guy on this entire planet. i would never let a man show me off to his guy friends like that. that's sick i am not a toy i am a human being.
you dont need to do anything to make him happy
he sounds very controlling and i would get some confidence in yourself
dump him and be the great person you are. love yourself the way you should be loved
please get rid of him and feel better its the best thing for you
2006-09-29 07:35:21 · answer #3 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not. There are plenty of guys out there that LOVE women that aren't skinny or average, but on the heavy side. Have some more respect for yourself and get a guy that deserves your love. Not this as s hole who's only staying with you because of your personality. A guy should love you for you. Not just because of one thing, but every single thing and part of you.
2006-09-29 07:30:58 · answer #4 · answered by Your_Star 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is an abusive loser who will continue to attack your self esteem for as long as you let him. Find someone who will adore you just the way you are. You deserve better. And when you dump him, which you should do as soon as possible, tell him that your new boyfriend (even if you don't have one yet) just looks better in his jeans- and has a cuter butt. That ought to shut him up.
2006-09-29 07:31:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
personally, I think you have put up with enough from him and you can find someone better then him who excepts you for you. I hate to be so blunt but it really angers me to see people try and change the appearance of other people when they are beautiful just how they are. YOU are beautiful......... Blessed be
2006-09-29 07:33:53 · answer #6 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say to dump him and find someone that will love you an accept you for who you are....No matter what he should be proud to have you on his arm and want to show you off to friends and family regardless. I think that you should find someone that will treat you better and have more respect for your feelings and someone that will encourage you not disrespect you.
2006-09-29 07:31:40 · answer #7 · answered by kristyn m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
CONTINUE to imporve your self. IF HE GET TOO NASTY TELL HIM when you get to your goal YOU could have any one you like.RIGHT NOW hes the ginny pig and your on a diet when your finished and to your goal you could have a good looking bf too. JUSt turn the tables on him. BUT DONT LOSE your goal just because hes a snake.
2006-09-29 07:33:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2006-09-29 07:36:21 · answer #9 · answered by ahazem02 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋