My bf wants me to have sex with him. we're both ready for it. but there's one problem, i'm afraid that he'll think i'm fat. i'm not the skinniest in the world, but i know i'm not fat. also, i'm afraid i'll get pregnant. i was on the pill, but i've been off of it for 2 months. what do i do? this is a serious question, plz no stupid questions.
2006-09-29 07:25:06 · 10 answers · asked by confused_1 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
You should really consider waiting.
If you won't-
Don't worry about him thinking you look fat. He wouldn't be dating you if he didn't think you were beautiful. Girls tend to be their own biggest critics- he probably won't even think twice about things you're all worked up about.
To not get pregnant, use condoms and even a spermicide foam or VCF along with them- your local clinic should give them all to you for free. Do NOT have sex without contraceptives. Pregnancy isn't the only thing you have to worry about.
2006-09-29 07:35:08 · answer #1 · answered by Alli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both are ready for it, then go ahead. Nobody's perfect and what does being fat have to do with love missy?? He's gotta love you for what you are, fat or thin...
Please use protection. If you are not happy with the condom then take the morning after pill within the next 72 hours.
Stay happy!
2006-09-29 14:32:30 · answer #2 · answered by freshlimesoda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol....let me tell you what I did....(this is so embarrassing)....when i decided to have sex with my boyfriend (now husband) i kept a big shirt on and a thong!! I REFUSED to take it off. I REFUSED to do it any any other position other then missionary (so he couldn't see my body). I did that for 6 months. Finally I got really comfortable around him and we grew A LOT closer in that 6 months i just started to take more and more off. I was very insecure. I still am in alot of ways but oh well he still loves me for ME!! He thought it was CUTE!!
LoL GOOD LUCK
2006-09-29 14:54:57 · answer #3 · answered by CMA 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just use a condom its safer than the pill anyway
as for thinking your fat some of us prefer a girl with a little meat on their bones to the matchstick model look
2006-09-29 14:29:54 · answer #4 · answered by peter n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well if you wanna go for it.if he loves you then he wont care. if you still feel kind of uncomfertable then instest on waring a shrit. umm the whole birth control thingy i really dont kno to much about so just use a condom or somthing..?
2006-09-29 14:41:23 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off... he;s not going to be thinking about any little jelly roll you may have!! and as far as birth controll... use a condom.
another piece of advice.... if you are afraid in ANY way...dont do it.
2006-09-29 14:29:19 · answer #6 · answered by ApRiL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well insist on him wearing protection... and some men prefer girls with a bit more to love... I married one and dated a few myself.
2006-09-29 14:28:41 · answer #7 · answered by Branden W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think your ready, go ahead. But if he really loves you he wont care.
2006-09-29 14:28:13 · answer #8 · answered by annie g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first how old are you? don't do any thing until you are ready and definitely not with out protection
2006-09-29 14:29:51 · answer #9 · answered by lola 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't untill your ready,
2006-09-29 18:17:57 · answer #10 · answered by sparkly543 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋