ADVISE PLZZZZzzzzzz............?
iam tired of asking this question again and again........will someone please give an useful answer? i completely adore this guy.i mean iam hopelessly in love with him for the past 2 and a half years. i feel obssesed with him.but,he's already got a girlfriend. i told him that i like him, he said that he likes me too but it would be wrong to dump the other girl for me,and that he doesn't want to hurt her.but he says "i dont wanna hurt u either,i dont know wat to do"........... we just knew each other,not such great friends....why does he care about my feelings? and, i really like him a lot[and,i dont wanna be a *****],what should i do? should i call him up for the last time and give him my new number and ask him to call me when he's single again?or,should i not do it? why or why not?i can't help feeling sad over him,how do i ward off this unhappiness?
please give me some kind and HELPFUL answers.....and,if you are gonna critisise me then get lost,find someone else...
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21 minutes ago
the thing is i never told him tat i likd him all this time, jus told him a couple of days bak
2006-09-29 07:13:56 · 7 answers · asked by sad princess 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Honey, you've received about 34 answers to this repeated question. If you don't think any one of those answers is useful than I think you're just looking for someone to tickle your ears and suggest you should just tell him to dump his girlfriend...
We're not here to tickle your ears.
He's with someone else. That's the bottom line. And would you really want him to dump her for you? If he did that, what's to say he wouldn't dump you when someone else interesting comes along. You wouldn't want your relationship starting off like that.
Move on, you'll get over it in time. Don't cling to it.
2006-09-29 07:21:57 · answer #1 · answered by stimply 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like is not the same as love and hes got a relationship already. I know its difficult to leave someone we are infatuated with but whats the point on waiting? Or breaking his relationship with the other girl? I would recommend you getting him off your mind by doing activities you enjoy and staying away from him. Getting another boy in a rush is contraproducent, so take it slow and good luck..
2006-09-29 07:20:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's obviously still hooked on this other girl. My advise to you is to leave him alone. He might see you as being desperate, and you don't want that. Sweetie, how old are you? You seem like a nice person, I'm sure you can find someone else.
2006-09-29 07:21:04 · answer #3 · answered by Kookie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would call him and give him ur new # but u should be friends wit benifits i mean ask the guy ta do something wit u not like go ta the movies well u could if u invite ur friends and some of his. but take a shot and ask him ta do somethin wit u. it wouldnt hert ta ask now would it . i give u all mi luck hun. iv got ur back
2006-09-29 07:18:32 · answer #4 · answered by Krispy™ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call him one last time and give him your number and tell him if hes ever available to give you a call and move on if its meant to be it will work itself out.
2006-09-29 07:19:37 · answer #5 · answered by accvining 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this guy is really interested in you he will call you, and if he don't then there are a lot of good single guys out there.
2006-09-29 07:19:53 · answer #6 · answered by justaguy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your in the wrong category if you want Advice go to the relationship category this is polls and surveys
2006-09-29 07:16:28 · answer #7 · answered by roonie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋