What if ur in a relationship and u do syber sex is that cheating too?
2006-09-29 07:10:05 · 20 answers · asked by shy girl 1 in Computers & Internet ➔ Internet
OOOPs its "Cyber" thanks.lol.
2006-09-29 07:17:52 · update #1
That would depend upon your relationship, I'd say. In some relationships, it might not be considered cheating. In others, it would. I guess it just depends on the level of commitment and whatnot that you've got with your partner.
2006-09-29 07:12:57 · answer #1 · answered by Karen 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yep... It's just as bad... for a time you we imagining that you were with some other person you showed you'd rather seek out something imaginary with a stranger than spend Quality time with your bf or spouse or whom ever. (not exactly healthy behavior). Any one who disagrees with this doesn't know what cheating is... Cheating is going against the commitment you made to someone else. A commitment about being sexually and emotionally intimate with only one person... a promise of exclusivity. Now if your mind isn't in it... how can your heart be? If you can and LIKE TO imagine youself with other people... where is your heart for your significant other.
Bottom line... Cheating is adultry and the definition of adultery comes from the bible. It's not just when two people sleep together that the bible calls adultery, but (Matthew 5:28)
"But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart."
It's plain and simple... If you lust after someone who your not commited to you cheated on them... And anyone who says that it's not possible to not lust after random people or control your imagination doesn't know what Love is about and what Self-Control is and most of all isn't mature enough to be in a successful and Healthy relationship.
Forgive me for being so blunt, I'm not the kind to mence words. I hope this helped you out.
2006-09-29 14:20:35 · answer #2 · answered by Jembee1720 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can't say "She cheated on me" but if u r discussing sex with another man that is grounds for a break up
Kinda of funny though. Your name is shy girl but ur into cyber sex. lol Closet freak
2006-09-29 14:12:50 · answer #3 · answered by C.B. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you WANT to cyber sex, you are not in love and do not feel devoted. If you know it would hurt them, and if they did it to you that you would be hurt too, it should be a no-no.
Its not strictly CHEATING, but its crappy. Id break up with you in a second.
And I am a real stud. Trust me.
2006-09-29 14:12:10 · answer #4 · answered by bigfaninboston 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would consider it cheating. But I guess it depends on the relationship and what you and your partner have agreed upon.
2006-09-29 14:13:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how your mate feels about it. My husband would consider it a form of cheating. Since I am sharing my sexual fantasies with someone else. Things that only he should know about. (Things that only he has business knowing about.) :p
2006-09-29 14:11:55 · answer #6 · answered by Laquishacashaunette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because it is 2 things....1) your intent (which is to get off with someone other than your spouse) and 2) it is lusting for someone else, looking outside your relationship for sexual fufullment.
2006-09-29 14:13:18 · answer #7 · answered by Beth M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep
2006-09-29 14:12:20 · answer #8 · answered by TheGroove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUH! welll of course. Anything that makes you even THINK of cheating...well, you're on the road to it baby!
If I found my significant other on site with someone else, talking sweet...that'd be "IT" for me.
"Don't let the door hit you on the way out BABY!"
2006-09-29 14:14:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No-- but it's kinda lame... sorry. If you're gonna cheat.. go all the way..
2006-09-29 14:13:10 · answer #10 · answered by Ms Leesa 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋