I have a gf and we used to have sex alot. I never had prob with my erections ever. About 2 months a go me and my girl broke up? I broke up with her casue i lost feelings for her. She flipped out like ive never seen anyone do. After i broke up with her i couldnt get an erection when trying to mastrubate. I think it was due to the fact that i just felt so guilty. I got back with her for the mere reason of getting my penis up in wich i could sometimes. Now im just depressed and have a hard time getting it up. I was so freaked out about my problem i went to about 4 different doctors and they all did testes and said i was fine and it was in my head. I am unhappy in my relationship but scared to leave cause im afraid i will suffer the same problem. Sometimes it feels like i cant get it up because im forcing myself to be with this person. Some serios advice would help out alot.
2006-09-29 07:03:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Dude the exact same thing happen to me. Me and my ex used to **** like crazy every single day. We did all kinds of crazy *** positions and put it wherever I wanted. The good news is you DONT have to stay with her. I also saw the doctor about it and my dick checked out fine. See the doctor again and have her check your testosterone level and your (cant thing of the name but it has to do with sexual desire)(some kind of chemical in your brain). I also tried getting it hard and then tryed twisting and turning it in different positions to see if maybe i blocked off a vein or sumtin. Im glad i found this post because i thought i was the only guy who went through this **** at such a young age. Good Luck man
2006-09-29 07:12:01 · answer #1 · answered by stoopidjenius 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your doctor was right it is all in your head! But I am not being mean because I once had the same problem and It was cause by stress. If you are under a great deal of strain or there is any
animosity between you and your girlfriend you wont be able to get an erection! My advice to you is separate from your girlfriend for a couple of weeks! Get plenty of sleep ! And what ever it takes for you to relax and have a stress free life do it and I guarantee your problem will be a thing of the past. Good luck!
2006-09-29 07:30:22 · answer #2 · answered by duke4172 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 08:33:52 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAN just think about her as a women and only that emotions can go only as far as the mind lets them tell her to start with a BJ and you just let it go from there fix your head the emotions with follow and what better way sometimes than sex believe me my friend!!
2006-09-29 07:08:43 · answer #4 · answered by neo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go into counseling to resolve these issues.
It's pretty clear you are seriously conflicted and you need some help sorting out your feelings
2006-09-29 07:07:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is a witch and put a spell on you, you have o take a bath in bat wings and frog legs and say hand jive hand jive three times and read the september issue of play boy good luck
2006-09-29 07:07:59 · answer #6 · answered by greg m 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i have the same thing man. except im just getting to know this girl.. its very weird.. i thought somthing was wrong with me but nah.. just too distracted im guessing.. (atleast hoping)
2006-09-29 07:28:34 · answer #7 · answered by re33b9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your problems are causing the sexual problems.maybe you should get your thoughts together by yourself,and then let the rest fall into place.
2006-09-29 07:07:20 · answer #8 · answered by lori b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a week or two, rent a porno ,problem solved.
2006-09-29 07:06:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with her, dont feel guilty and you wont have a problem
2006-09-29 07:07:05 · answer #10 · answered by lazy_eye19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋