i knw a guy n he keeps on flirtin with me ,i dunno if theres nething frm his side but for 2 days i jus cant stop thinkin abt him.I LOVE MY HUBBY A LOOOOOOOOOT N HE LOVES ME EVN MORE THAN I LOVE HIM n so im feelin kinda guilty...hoe can i stop thinkin abt ths guy?i cant stop meetin him cause we rin the same class..but i just dont want to think abt him...
2006-09-29 06:36:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
EVIL IS TRYING TO INTRUDE, YOU ARE BEING TESTED, DON'T FAIL.
2006-09-29 06:39:41 · answer #1 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's totally normal and natural to have those kind of infatuation feelings for someone. However, you need to weight the benefits and costs of pursuing your crush. Do you value trust and honesty in your relationship with your husband? You're already feeling guilty and you (presumably) haven't done anything yet, do you think you can carry the weight of guilt around with you for the rest of your life, or will you have to tell him at some point? When you tell him, are you prepared for your relationship to end?
Essentially, you have to make the choice now whether or not a fanciful fling is worth giving up the relationship you have or forever altering it. Most men don't like sharing their woman, so go with your head not your "heart" on this one.
If you're not sure what to do, try flirting with your husband. Surprise him with a romantic date (even if it's just a dinnertime picnic by candelight on your living room floor), write him love notes, french kiss him good-bye in the morning. See what happens to your feelings for this other man.
2006-09-29 13:47:32 · answer #2 · answered by Wonderland 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We're all human - just because you got married doesn't mean you became ugly so men don't fancy you anymore - also it's perfectly normal for you still to find other men attractive, it means your a healthy woman.
I mean - I bet your husbank still looks at god looking women!
As long as you don't physically cheat with another man !
2006-09-29 13:42:09 · answer #3 · answered by kamirsam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your husband, that way you are proving to him that no one can come between the two of you! And by the way if that guy knows you are married he has no respect for you!
2006-09-29 13:41:06 · answer #4 · answered by Adam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋