why does it matter so much that i love this person after he lied about loving me and wanting to g?et married and have kids
2006-09-29 06:32:12 · 13 answers · asked by hot_mama 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he knows that if he tells you what you wanna hear then you'll do anything he wants - you're not in love with him your in love with what he said, the whole idea of finding someone who loved you, wanted to get married and have children with you. if you follow through with him you'll only end up more hurt and confused then you are right now
2006-09-29 06:51:01 · answer #1 · answered by 10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sends a major message that you can be dumped on and will keep coming back. Do you think he will respect you after he takes you back into his bed? He won't..... He may keep doing you but is that the life you want. Try telling him you're done being an unpaid whore and he's cut off - tell him if he wants you he better show you a ring, set a date(within 5 months from now) and start treating with the respect do the future mother of his babies.
If you're weak you'll never get a quality man - you can get guys all day long but don't you want a man.
2006-09-29 13:40:26 · answer #2 · answered by awf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You "love" him but you totally devalue yourself and believe - possibly subconciously - that you deserve this kind of "love." It is irrational to "love" someone who "lied" about loving you and wanting to get married and have kids. He manipulated you and it is continuing so that he can have sex with you and not have to leave $100 on the nightstand. If you choose to stay with him, charge him! Good Luck.
2006-09-29 13:36:36 · answer #3 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he did not lie about loving you and wanting to have kids
Either follow your instincts or break it off. You have alot going for you, Sweetheart.
2006-09-29 13:37:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heres how it is! You are infatuated, and obcessed. He flat out dont give a shyt.
2006-09-29 13:35:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it matters that you should try to confront the situation
2006-09-29 13:37:56 · answer #6 · answered by melikey2009 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter to anyone but you, if that's what you want!
2006-09-29 13:35:05 · answer #7 · answered by Adam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he has a big penis.u been together a long time
2006-09-29 13:36:22 · answer #8 · answered by SINISTER MEMPHISTO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY ONLY GUYS??? YOU ON THE MAKE?? OR ARE YOU A NEEDY WOMAN WHO NEEDS ONLY MALE ATTENTION?????
2006-09-29 13:42:35 · answer #9 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never lied
2006-09-29 13:37:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋