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2006-09-29 06:26:54 · 15 answers · asked by june71969 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Not at first, if you are comfortable with the idea of her being with a woman, let her experiment on her own, then if she builds something with a receptive woman, you should ask her new lover if a threesome is an option. I know of several men who tried for a threesome and were disappointed because they expected to be the center of attention, with two women making love to them, only to discover that their wife's girlfriend had no interest in them at all, and they got half the attention they normally got, instead of twice as much. I've also had a bi-sexual friend who successfully built a three-way relationship, she refers to them as her wife and husband, which is still going strong after 20 years. It all depends on the individuals involved.
2006-09-29 09:49:27 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that and I left Him for Her LOL.. serious . I agree three some's are not all there cracked up to be esp if you love your wife think how it will feel seeing her enjoying someone else. I have friends that tried this they are now constanly fighting and on the brink of divorce. I say why a three some she is bi- curious let her find a woman ...
2006-09-29 15:51:48 · answer #2 · answered by 2cute2BSr8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't seriously discussed it then NO!!!! If you decide to do it or not will come from the talks about what you expect to happen before, during, and after and what it means.
Its up to the two of you. I personally think what 2 consenting adults want to do FINE, but threesomes can be tricky. Listen to answers from those who experienced it.
Good luck.
2006-09-29 13:30:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope and I don't believe its right in the gay world either. My opinion. I think someone will be left out and it will only cause grief. Sex shouldn't be the most important aspect of relationship. If it is you shouldn't commit. It makes no sense. If you want a roommate with benifits that is different.
2006-09-29 15:54:41 · answer #4 · answered by Karrien Sim Peters 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Funny how you get morons saying things like "sure if you want your marriage to fall apart. blah, blah, blah"
The fact is, open, honest sexual acivity with your spouse or S.O. and other people you trust actually strengthens and rejuvenates a marriage.
But the pious morons out there will keep thier heads in the sand for whatever reason...
2006-09-29 13:38:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You'd better specify whether you want a man or a woman...and I don't think you'll find a threesome on this site.
2006-09-29 13:28:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It may be fun for a while but you'll get divorced within 3 years guaranteed. Make your choice.
2006-09-29 13:51:34 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it unless your marriage is on a very solid ground.. because if you do it and you are on shaky ground.. you could loose your marriage all together...
bringing a 3rd person into a relationship that is not stable is not fair to any of the people involved.
2006-09-29 13:31:15 · answer #8 · answered by RiahWillow 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure keeping your sex life fresh and exciting is important for a lasting marriage. besides I think you may be getting the better end of the deal here.
2006-09-29 13:30:22 · answer #9 · answered by alex e 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why even try something like that, it could destroy your marriage or you could catch a disease. Just learn how to fulfill her curiosity through fantasy or using devices.
2006-09-29 13:30:40 · answer #10 · answered by Scooter Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋