Is there ANY justifiable reason that a man......?

Question

should treat the woman he "supposedly" loves badly??????????

And actually tell her that there was reason that he treated her in such a fashion??????

I wanna know!!!!

Women!!!!! Should this "man" be kicked to the curb immediately????????

Well, the person in question is somewhere here on this site....

Come out, come out, where ever you are!!!!.......

Answer 1

No, there is no reason. If he has a problem, he needs to be honest and up front about it.

If he actually did love her, he never would have treated her badly in the first place. He should have loved her enough to respect her.

Answer 2

There are no justifiable reasons a man should
treat his woman badly, we all will experience
conflict from our own rhetoric and verbal poetry,
yet to actually treat a woman with discontent is
beyond the dignity of the drama of a relationship,
if a man, or woman treats the other with bad intent
then one can only say that there is a divided heart
creating temperaments of incompatible behavior
patterns which are not healthy.
Whatever the reasoning is that is suppose to make
his code valid is only a childish frame of reference
to his ignorance about love and care and trust.
A person who carries that paradoxical philosophy has
only one goal in his pursuit to a partnership falsehood,
and that is needing control over you !!!!!
He may love you too much and feel this need to
control you with a bad way, his way of a distorted
fabric of linning his ego with his prize from cruelty,
so the slaughter of care
is coming from his insecurities of loving you in a false
way exposing cruelty when he should be embracing
you whenever he has a free moment and tell you how
much love he carries for you within his heart ......
I cannot say to kicked him to the curb because all the
details are not given, yet if i were you i would not let
myself be treated in any form which is cruel or latent
with mental torture where in this way you end up
destroying each other ....
Stay safe and beware of false love in the form of
abuse !!!!!!
Only you can decide if the curb is the next home for
a terrible monster who treats you badly because only you
know all the facts and have lived the sorrow ......
It is all a matter of how much you can endure in your
life and mind and heart .....

Answer 3

I'd say there's no justifiable reason yet there are woman all over who stay with the man who supposedly loves them even though the man abuses her.

I am definitely not excusing mistreatment in any way but am saying that some people never had a good role model to help them appreciate the benefits of treating loved ones well.

Yes, kick the man to the curb and tell him that if he has any desire to get back, he needs to get counseling to help him through his issues!

Answer 4

That is a broad question (no pun intended), and you did'nt give any specifics, so there is no way to give a 100% accurate answer to your particular situation.
First, let me say that we do not live in a perfect world,
it's not always champagne and roses.
People say and do mean things, often in the heat of the moment.
When the heat dies down, that is the time for honest talking and decision making.
Maybe you unknowingly did something that pissed your partner off, and he vented.
If he never tells you what it was you did, you might do it again, if not with him, then with someone else, and the scenario could be replayed.
If you talk it out when you are both calm and rational, maybe you can better deal with it.
Don't kick him to the curb in a moment of anger, you might really regret it later.
Good luck, I hope things work out for you.

Answer 5

i'm a guy but i have an insight for this. the man sounds weird but then you're not giving us the full story. I know there are bunch of weirdos and twisted people out there, but most of the time, any action is followed by a cause and maybe you need to ask him or find out yourself why he's treating you that way. one example, a guy can treat a girl badly because he had a bad experience for being a 'nice guy' and get mistreated by a *****. psychologically, he assumes that a man should be 'bad' in order to get the upper hand in the relationship. if you think he's eating up your life and not worth saving the relationship. dump him fast!

Answer 6

Aloha from Down Unda!

Sounds like some 'issues' need resolution!

We have the justification of the Devil himself to thank for all the evils of this earth. Certainly there isn't any other 'justifiable' reason for anyone to badly treat anyone else! Forgiveness is divine? Or just kick away. In any case, it's your choice to make & it's your ability to accept or reject any of your ideas which makes your solution so very clear & simple. There are always options to consider for the sake of your own peace of mind. The answers are perfectly obvious to me. But, I'm a man... & on behalf of men everywhere, sorry!

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Answer 7

It all depends on what you call "badly"

If life has taught me nothing else it is that one persons pleasure can often be another persons poison. And that when one person accuses another of behaving "badly" it often means no more than the "guilty party" isn't letting the "injured party" have everything their own way.

So yes.

In point of fact, I do believe there can be plenty of justifiable reasons that a man should treat the woman he "supposedly" loves "badly".

Because "badly" can often translate in to "reasonably" or "fairly" under the circumstances.

Answer 8

If she treated him just as badly or worse, it is justifiable. If
she did nothing to deserve this type of treatment, then it's
not justifiable treatment. If she started treating him badly
first, then she is the one who should be kicked to the curb,
not him. That's it in a nutshell. It goes both ways...you can't
have it one sided in favor of one side or the other. If you do,
the side that is getting the short end of the relationship, should
get out of it as soon as possible.

Answer 9

oh, wow. Do you know how much I feel for you on this one? I think that sometimes, when someone loves you, they still end up doing things that would hurt you. They would never intentionally hurt you, but sometimes, especially boys, do things that they shouldn't do. They just don't think about the fact that the things they do have an effect on other people. I don't think he would ever do anything on purpose that would hurt you, but I think that sometimes, they push us to the absolute limit, and don't understand that the situation is already crazy enough without adding something like that to it. To hurt someone you love, even unintentionally is hard enough, but it's even harder when that person has no one to talk to about it.

If you want to talk.... you know where to find me. I'm so sorry.

Answer 10

There is no justification for it. There should be no justification for anyone, male or female, to treat each other badly, if they are suppose to be in love. Actually, my wife did do this to me, but she has a bi-polar condition and didn't know what she was doing at the time. This is the only time she could be forgiven for her actions.