Ive been going out with this guy for the past 5 months, When I first met him I wanst planning on falling for him or feeling so attracted to him. We were suppose to just enjoy each others time as friends going to the movies, poetry shows, dinners, concerts, talking till the sun comes up & SEX. Five months later I'm wanting to be around him every chance I can. Were just friends I keep telling myself but my heart knows better. He has awakening feelings in me beyond passion. We have talked about it an he isnt ready for a serious relationship due to a previous failed engagement. Until now I haven't thought about a serious relationship but this man makes me feel in a way that I didnt know I could feel. I want to take my time getting to know him better but on the other hand I dont want to lose sight of a good thing. Since we are just friends were open to dating other people but thats not what I want anymore. He completes me. I want no other man than him. What do I do if I want more he doesnt?
2006-09-29 06:12:43 · 4 answers · asked by ReeRe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am in a similar situation, although I lost him. If you really love him, be patient. If he isn't ready, he isn't ready. But get to know him better and slow down on the sex. That just confuses the issue. Maybe you have these feelings because you are sleeping together. Continue being good friends, and hopefully over time he will be ready. That way, you aren't rushing him and you are preserving your integrity. Good luck!
2006-09-29 06:19:26 · answer #1 · answered by Dewey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, sounds like a great guy. But he needs time to get over his previous failed relationship - patience is definitely a virtue here - its sounds like he is worth waiting for (p.s. 5 months is NOTHING in the long run)
2006-09-29 13:19:38 · answer #2 · answered by RT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean I am in the same situation. I am interested to hear some responses. Your situation is exactly like mine word for word...it's kind of weird..
2006-09-29 13:19:18 · answer #3 · answered by t j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is it for men and women to be friends without one or the other developing feelings please don't fall into that taboo stay strong if not tell him how you feel and hope for the best!!
2006-09-29 13:20:46 · answer #4 · answered by notyochic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋