well lets say my friend would be really mad at me if i went out with him but shes really not my friend because she has been talking behind my back, should i got out with him still anyway?
2006-09-29 05:38:39 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if you really like that guy
then u should go all out
dun hold back
compete with her for him
and see who he likes
2006-09-29 05:41:59 · answer #1 · answered by x040493t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are better ways to get back at a backstabber without having to commit yourself to some guy. Be subtle about it, or just be the better person and leave those two to each other. If he will chase a poser like that, then they deserve each other. Just be his friend when she screws him over, because you know it will happen. Life is not about trying not to make people mad. Do what makes you happy.
2006-09-29 12:42:04 · answer #2 · answered by rufnready 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would depend on how much you value the friendship. What you have to think about is a guy really worth losing a true friend. However, if she is not a true friend, go ahead. But be cautious. Also be aware, that this girl will probably never talk to you again.
2006-09-29 12:40:59 · answer #3 · answered by Melissa W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, who does this guy like? You or your so called friend?
Anyway, If you really like this guy, why not give urself a chance..go out with him..You dont have to worry about ur so called friend as she talk bad about you behind your back...Friends who backstabs is never a friend..So, since you like the guy, go out with him..have some fun!! =)
2006-09-29 12:42:37 · answer #4 · answered by elektra_1286 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know she's been talking behind your back...? If she has and you know for sure then "NO!" you're not really friends, but don't talk to this guy to get back at her.... You two need to talk about your problems and try to get an understanding on weather your friends or not
2006-09-29 12:49:38 · answer #5 · answered by Nae-Nae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your going to go out w/him think is your friendship worth it.And r u making excuses for you all not being friends b/c u want to date this guy.Im sure he's amazing but your true friends will be there when he wont.If you know that she like him @ all dont go for it.Its not fare.But if u all arent really friends be a "G" about it and let her know she will respect u even though she may be mad and so will he.Good Luck
2006-09-29 12:44:23 · answer #6 · answered by brighteyesali06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all babygirl...you have no real friends of the opposite sex until you over 25. This is when you know who you are. Leave girl alone and talk to the guy. If he is interested in you or her he will surely let you know. I always tell my nieces...other women are competition and you are ourt for self so make self happy.
2006-09-29 12:42:03 · answer #7 · answered by phas_1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friends always say that but you know what if you like him and he likes you and not her theres nothing you can do except give him a chance and not worry about her she will get over it and if she dont then she isnt a true friend....She shouldnt be forcing you to chose like that just go out with him and dont care what she thinks
2006-09-29 12:45:09 · answer #8 · answered by Princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's been talking behind your back (says you) and you go out with him anyway, one of you is a bit**
2006-09-29 12:39:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you never go after a guy your friend likes too because I was dating a guy and liked my friend I got dumped! He started dating my friend! I longer talk to both of them anymore! He is off limits sister plus find other you likes you!
2006-09-29 13:39:22 · answer #10 · answered by crystal e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy is not a door prize, he is human being with his own wants, needs and thoughts, let him decie who he wants to go out with . . . . and if this "friend" of yours is talking about you behind your back, she is not a friend.
2006-09-29 12:41:14 · answer #11 · answered by Marmig Marky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋