I don't really have any friends, I don't hang out with anyone at school becaue everyone is so superficial and fake. i don't like being apart of cliques. this summer i changed a lot, and I realized how the people i was hanging out with weren't really my friends. I wish that people could be more real and stop trying to be someone that they are never going to be...any suggestions on how i can get to know some real people!?
2006-09-29 05:18:53 · 5 answers · asked by prettyinpink<3<3 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
ok you know that weird quiet girl at the back of the chemistry class? try speaking to her, shes unlikely going to be superficial, and would make a good friend because she knows how it feels to be over looked, so she will apreciate your friendship. why not join a group wif people who have the same intrests as you, such as guitar lessons, the people there are unlikely to be superficial and care about lip gloss over music.
Teenage girls often act superficial because they are self consious and want to fit in with their friends, so dont exclude yourself form everyone else, if tyhey realise what your like they may start to act themselves also. Also try hanging out with people a couple of years older than you they have often gone past the beauty stage, university students especially! good luck x
2006-09-29 06:15:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Well when i was in high school i was one of those people who had alot of friends but as i got older i realized who really was there for me...i only talk to a few people now from school you sound like a really down to earth girl the important thing is that you stay true to yourself and heart don't change for anybody stay the same and maybe join a group or club or something try not to be shy you will never know if you like a person unless you talk to them
2006-09-29 08:58:03 · answer #2 · answered by Shantel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi! You are sooooooo right!!! I don't have many friends either cause people are just so fake or they either want something from you or just use you so i just stick with my husband and sometimes he's a pain in the @#$@!!!!! But i have found that my TRUE friends are the ones that i study the bible with...now they are REAL friends....they come to MY house on their time and gas and spend a couple hours with me studying the bible...i don't know if you are christen or not but there are other groups you could join that you like and then you will have something in common with the people you meet there!!!! Good luck and stay the true heart that you are!!!!!!!!!!!!! Bye...
2006-09-29 05:31:26 · answer #3 · answered by VICTORIA L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think about it, there really is no "real" friends out there in this day and age. The only people you can trust with your most intimate and personal questions is your mother. But hey why be a loner for the rest of your life? Try getting someone who feels the same way as you do and you're likely to get along.
p.s. i don't consider anyone my "friend" either.Just gotta have someone to talk to once in a while.
2006-09-29 06:21:39 · answer #4 · answered by Mermaid 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Join a group or club that you are interested in - it doesn't have to be through school either - a lot of communities have things you can get involved in.
2006-09-29 05:23:03 · answer #5 · answered by GingerGirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋