i am going to sound pathetic so i appologize but i am in love with the new guy at school (warned you about the patheticness) i recon he knows i do he like teases me he dances with girls in front of me as soon as he works out im in the same room he flirts with all the girls then glances at me after does he hate me is that why hes doing it to make me depressed cos if thats what he is doing its working
2006-09-29 04:53:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I doubt he "hates" you but he may be trying to send you a message. The message is probably "don't get hung up on me" because I don't feel the same way about you.
2006-09-29 04:55:54 · answer #1 · answered by snddupree 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To make a long answer short: Understand that guys and girls are wired differently. The boy that comes over to you, puts his arm around you and whispers in your ear that he loves you.... doesn't even like you, he just wants something.
The guy that is flirting with all the other girls, and not you may in fact hold you with far more respect then those girls and likes you a lot more. Don't however set yourself up as an unattainable figure on a pedestal. Say hi to him, or the next time he glances at you give him a smile.
2006-09-29 05:21:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hiya. The guy is clearly trying to make you jealous. He knows he has the upper hand as he must have seen you mooning over him!
I would suggest you do the same! Let him have a taste of his own medicine. Flirt away girl and practice your expressions in the mirror. If the guy really likes you, then he is bound to start asking questions about you and may even approach you!
But trust me when i say this, love at 13 aint love, its your HORMONES PLAYING A DIRTY TRICK ON YOU!
Wish you good luck :)
2006-09-29 05:45:08 · answer #3 · answered by freshlimesoda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one thing I wish I did when I was in school was to be less of a chicken **** {to be frank.} If you really like him talk to him about it! Do you know how many guys after the fact I was out of school and already with some1 serious has told me how much they liked me in school but were afraid to ask me out? You could have half your male classmates likin you and you wouldn't even know it. There are plenty of guyz out there believe me. If he doesnt like you don't let it bother you, There is always some1 else that will. As long as you have confidence in yourself and stop letting silly things get you depressed you'll feel on top of the world....Promise!
2006-09-29 05:21:13 · answer #4 · answered by bcch89 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either really loves you or taking you for a ride second one dont need value yourself to find out the truth continur to live your life to the full regardless of insensitivr or heartless people out there in the world you really truly matter friend
2006-09-29 07:04:30 · answer #5 · answered by jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe he likes you and tries to get you jealous. Maybe he doesn't and hes trying to make you suffer. Don' t get your hopes up because if thats how he is right now imagine if you guys actually got together. How do you love him anyways do you even talk to him? Sounds like you dont even know him.
2006-09-29 05:21:23 · answer #6 · answered by shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...those were the days. I am 40 now, and remember the innocence in a crush. How FUN! CHERISH and remember these days in your life. Adulthood is nothing like what you are going through. One of the wonderful gifts of youth! Enjoy it, and be a good girl!
2006-09-29 04:59:37 · answer #7 · answered by gg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he is really trying to make you jealous. That usually means he likes you. Just ignore him for a while and let him see that what he is doing isn't working and he should approach you in a different way.
2006-09-29 04:56:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a boy teases you he probably likes you. just ignore it and don't look at him. it will make him want you more. and when/if he does start talking to him kind of give him short answer never really full. it will kind of through him off. but yet want to know more about you. if he ever asks to hang out or something just say "i don't know, i might think about it" but remember be friendly and laugh at his dumb jokes... don't over do it though.
also flirt with other guys.
2006-09-29 07:50:56 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he's probably trying to tease you into liking him.
try not to get depressed by what he's doing.
if you've ever watched "John Tucker Must Die" i tihnk he does the same think to a girl in the film.... and he really likes her.
hopefully it is the same with you.
gd luck with him
2006-09-29 05:18:08 · answer #10 · answered by FreakGirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋