I haven't seen my boyfriend since Monday morning, I saw him last night, we had sex, but it took him a long time to climax (which I find unusual given he's hadn't had sex in almost three days) and he wasn't really in the mood for it, I had to initiate it...does this mean anything as far as if he's getting it from somewhere else?? Or am I being paranoid??
2006-09-29 04:46:25 · 23 answers · asked by skeptical 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I did ask him if he's jerked off and he said no, but then changed his answer and said "yeah on Tuesday"
2006-09-29 04:50:15 · update #1
Possibly, but then again, not necessarily. He may have been very tired, too tired to want to exert the effort for sex, until you aroused that desire within him. And although he may have not been with another woman, it doesn't mean he didn't have sex by himself. Don't let a single incident make you suspicious. Look at the whole of the relationship.
2006-09-29 04:51:53 · answer #1 · answered by eric l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are two scenarios to this situation exhibited by your boyfriend. Firstly, if he had been faithful and "switched off" it will take time to stimulate those sex hormones and be sexually thunderous. On the other hand, if he just had sex and is "drained" then it will take time for this tired, exhuastive hormones to produce another round of sperms ready for a climax. The clue is to reflect if he was enjoying it or just bumping away laboriously. If it was the first, then the second solution is it otherwise the last to the first. Good luck as you decipher this.
2006-09-29 05:00:59 · answer #2 · answered by pagiopu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've noticed in your last couple of posts you have real trust issues. That's the case here. You're being paranoid. It was only three days, which really isn't that big a deal. He wasn't in the mood. You initiated it. What did you expect? Of course, maybe he's taking matters into his own hands and that's why he wasn't interested and took so long. Who knows.
2006-09-29 04:52:29 · answer #3 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible that he was tired or maybe really stressed out about something. Not being into having sex isn't always about cheating, many emotional and physical factors can affect your sex drive although often young men don't want to admit that their...potency might be affected by every day things.
Instead of jumping to conclusions, you should talk to him, ask him if anything is the matter. Let him know that you noticed that he didn't really seem into sex and that you are concerned about his absense and his standoffish behavior. Ask him if anything is going on at work or with his parents before you accuse him of cheating.
2006-09-29 04:50:09 · answer #4 · answered by QuestionWyrm 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is typical. Why should he buy the cow he is getting the milk for free. Apparently he is not thirsty for milk, yours has soured him or he found a fresher supply. Find a friend, date, fall in love, marry and then have intimate relations. You do not need to cheapen yourself, and set yourself up to be used and abused. You have a choice. If you choose to behave this way, then you choose the outcome. You cannot change others but you can change yourself.
2006-09-29 04:50:22 · answer #5 · answered by Shayna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Paranoid.
2006-09-29 04:48:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-12 17:23:19 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe a touch paranoid ... just ask him!
As for the delay ... maybe he'd been to see Lady Palm and her five daughters (as I saw someone euphemistically describe masturbation)
2006-09-29 04:49:03 · answer #8 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is possible he may have just wanted to 'enjoy' you last night and that he was too embarrassed at first to admit to you that he 'took care of himself'
2006-09-29 04:53:06 · answer #9 · answered by jenn j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is what you need. He maybe messing around or maybe he masturbates when he is not with you. Talk to him. If you have any doubts about him be faithful talk to him. You do not have to be accusing him just tell him what is on your mind.
2006-09-29 04:51:23 · answer #10 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋