so i like Women, i have children and i have a boyfriend does that mean that i am confused i dont think so that just means that i know what i like...a woman's touch is some much more different than a man rough hands the emotion that a woman can give to me is on a different level than what a man can give to you...is this wrong i dont think so..but why do gays and lesbians think there is something wrong with this please tell me help me understand
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2006-09-29 04:07:46 · 13 answers · asked by barbie c 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
lady why would you report me i have not said or done anything remotely nasty or hurtful who are you!! i am here to ask a question so if you didnt like my question dont answer it
2006-09-29 04:11:18 · update #1
thanks for the support and understanding to each and everyone of you!! i can see the points everyone has brought up..i have never cheated on my boyfriend and he imagines that i am into women!! that is the great part of him that i love but i have been with a woman and the expereince was great, Women are the best thing god put on this earth we are strong beings that cannot be pushed down!!
love you ladies
2006-09-29 05:43:38 · update #2
If I am reading this correctly and if it is a serious question... my perspective as a lesbian is that I think it can be difficult for bisexuals. Bi folks are not always accepted in the gay/lesbian community and are often misunderstood by heterosexuals. It has been a long battle for acceptance in the main stream for those of us who have been around for a while. We tend to stick together and there is almost a level of distrust that I sense directed toward bi women. Many lesbians I have known will not get involved with bi women - it is like they are not seen as full fledged members of the club - it can be very cliquey. And yes, some lesbians feel that bi women are confused and need to chose an orientation. My feelings are that you have an orientation: you are bisexual. If you are happy with the choices that you make and partners that you chose to have in your life, then don't let anyone mess with your head about it. If no one is getting hurt then what you chose to do as a consenting adult with other consenting adults is no one elses business.
2006-09-29 04:35:09 · answer #1 · answered by Cia 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Edna's kidding, honey. Don't worry about her.
I don't think there's anything wrong with it. I'm bi, too. (And that's what it sounds like you are.) Women and men *are* different, in so many wonderful ways, and it feels like having to choose between chocolate and nacho cheese!
I only think there's something wrong with it if you cheat on him and/or just use a woman for sex. It's even possible to have an open relationship with consent, if you need that. Lots of people have done it.
Or you can just fantasize, watch videos, etc. That's just fine. You can be monogamous and still express your bisexual identity.
Ultimately, you have to figure out what's really important to you.
2006-09-29 04:18:36 · answer #2 · answered by GreenEyedLilo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you.
You should talk with your boyfriend and tell him what's going on. The only think I can think of being wrong about this is if you lie to him or cheat on him with a woman. Be honest and open, he might understand or not, but if you want to act on your attraction to women, you're going to have to tell your boyfriend.
The only thing I can think of why you were reported is perhaps someone thought you weren't being serious, or they were offended by the way you worded the question. Or, you weren't even reported by someone gay or lesbian, maybe you were reported by a bible-thumper.
2006-09-29 04:21:50 · answer #3 · answered by moonie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure i am understanding. I love woman, however not in a sexual manner, or for the purpose of a sexual relationship. I love women to the point that I have tremendous respect for other women, I empower other woman, I am not catty and want to pull other woman down which unfortunately is the case within this society. If more women had the attitude of respect and love for one another we would be a better society in which to live.
2006-09-29 04:12:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are some people that don't believe that there is such a thing as bisexuals. Yes, it seems there are ignorant gays and lesbians out there. Just live your happy bisexual life and ignore the ignorant people. There's a lot of people out there that are bisexual. You're not "just in a phase" or "confused." Wow, to think I had to say this to counter something you've been told by other GLBT people... Just be yourself and be happy.
2006-09-29 06:09:25 · answer #5 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not wrong! A woman liking women today is no big deal. The diff between the 2 sexes are very much so. I like men.
2006-09-29 04:26:09 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you, and i don't know y that was reported. i've met a few gay people that think that it is wrong to be bi, and i think its kinda hypocritical of them. No one has the right to judge you. how you feel is how you feel. Period
2006-09-29 05:31:39 · answer #7 · answered by belle1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with you, you are a human being and that's all it counts, you are not confused, the ones confused are the ones that do not understand you.
Life is only one, so enjoy it.
2006-09-29 05:38:53 · answer #8 · answered by bigonegrande 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All feelings are valid. As long as you are not cheating on your boy friend then i can see nothing wrong here. Be happy
2006-09-29 22:01:01 · answer #9 · answered by kitpoodle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you. If you are feeling okay, then don't ask others if you should be confused. Why should you?
You are perfectly normal.
2006-09-29 04:10:45 · answer #10 · answered by Bloed 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋