There is a boy who i like a lot. we are friends. He says he trusts me but whenever he has something bothering him and i tell him he can trust me and he can talk about it to me. he doesnt want to. he says that i dt want to worry you about it. but isnt that what frens are for? to worry and care for each other? well, i have feelings for him and he didnt know that. i have told him about it finally and now after that he starts to confide his worries and tells me everything which he didnt before i told him my feelings. why this sudden change? how did he open up so easily?Does he feel something for me? i am confused. why did he start telling me about him all of a sudden after i told him that i love him? what does he feel for me?
2006-09-29 03:52:10 · 5 answers · asked by fed up 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
when i asked him what he feels for me: he says he has mixed feelings:S
2006-09-29 04:02:14 · update #1
Maybe he had feelings for you in the first place, and was uneasy or ashamed of talking about them. But now that he knows how you feel, he doesn't have to be afraid, because he knows that you feel the same way. Ultimately, only he can tell you how he feels though and rushing into things will only put him off you.
Good Luck!
2006-09-29 06:24:23 · answer #1 · answered by lousou_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've assured him that he can trust you and confide in you. More than likely, the way you feel about him is the same way he feels about you. Talk to him and hear what he has to say. I can't really answer your question for you but this is something that you have to find out on your own.
2006-09-29 03:59:06 · answer #2 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he likes you very much, but as he said he is still confused. Back off a little and be there for him when he needs you, but also develop a life away from him so he doesn't feel too smothered. He will come around in time but he needs to go at his pace.
2006-10-02 05:42:21 · answer #3 · answered by feebee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may just feel like if u him as more than a friend then u will be willing 2 listne where as when u just had the friendship he may hav felt you were only offering as a friend
2006-09-29 03:56:55 · answer #4 · answered by jellyfairy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He feels you might care and listen. Beyond that, you'll have to figure it out for yourself.
2006-09-29 03:55:48 · answer #5 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋