Ok here goes...
Theres a guy i like and hes thinking about giving up on his dream because of reasons that i wont meniton...
I think i have an idea that might just help him get the job he wants, but I dont know whether or not i should interfear.....
hes helped me out with so much, i just want to help him out with something for once... but I dont know how he will react if he finds out that i helped him (you know what guys are like, they dont like to ask for help)... and it might not even work...
Should I atleast give it a try?
What would you do if you were me?
Guys, how would you feel if someone did something to help you out and it worked but didn't tell you about it? Or how would you feel if it didn't work? would you do the same for someone else?
Girls, have you ever done this before? has anyone ever done this for you before? if so how would you feel?
2006-09-29 03:43:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Since you have a feeling this particular idea would work, talk to him about it. At least he'll know what's going on because some people do not like surprises. Guys don't like asking for help because they have this masculine alter ego and that they're not supposed to ask for help, especially asking a female. You should give it a try but make sure you get his approval first. That is something that I would do. I've helped a really good male friend of mine before. He has been there for me so much and he asked me for my help. I've helped him out and he hated asking me for it. I reassured him that I'm his friend and I'll do whatever I can to help him out. I only help those who help themselves. He really appreciated it and he knows that I will always be there for him, just like I know that he'll always be there for me. Do what you think is best- not only for him, but for yourself as well. Good luck.
2006-09-29 03:50:56 · answer #1 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have tried hooking my man up with people,,,because he djs and its been a passion of his forever. When he moved with me from another state,,,i have been tryin to get things going for him,,making his dreams come true. He always says thank you baby...he never gets mad or puts me down for trying to help him. He appreciates it and i know that. I think you should go for it and do whatever it is that you are trying to do to help him make his dreams come true.
2006-09-29 10:48:18 · answer #2 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with our heart & try to help out by giving your caring advice.go for it girl
2006-09-29 10:46:56 · answer #3 · answered by chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him decide for himself u dont interfere
2006-09-29 10:47:25 · answer #4 · answered by angle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋