tell me what should i do to get rid off.please give me suggestions.
2006-09-29 03:42:21 · 11 answers · asked by chandan 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
This should pass , silent treatment is the best treatment.
If not talk in private to your principal or class teacher get your parents also involved.
Is there a teacher, that is encouraging this behaviour, if so tell the whole thing to your parents or guardians, this is serious and take action now, this will not pass and gets only worst as time passes.
PS
Show your Q?and my answer to the teacher/parents/ principal.
Do not show this to teacher if the teacher is part of the harassment.
2006-09-29 03:44:54 · answer #1 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honestly ignore it. I know it must be hard going through school with people picking on you, but know that when your school life is over it will not have mattered. Young kids don't know how much hurting they may be causing to others. Always be yourself even if you're not liked for it. Again, remember that what is going to define your life is you and not others. If you really want them to like you so they'll stop picking on you then maybe you should try not being so quiet, I'm not saying to change who you are, but I am going to tell you that it's not worth being shy because you're afraid of what people are going to think about you cause as you grow older you realize that you may have held back on great opportunities for being so shy and you also realize that as you get older people really have no power over you! I hope that makes sense. Good luck!
2006-09-29 03:59:45 · answer #2 · answered by laurel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
General attitude all across he world is that People perceive what u project them. If u project that u r quite then they believe it, and will bully u. If u project that u r smart, they believe that. SO Now, u should project urself to be smart, and confident guy. Try to get info from elders on any issue, then boast among ur friends. Soon, they will start taking u seriously, while u wud hav acquired the habit of getting and sharing info, so u shall continue to be smart and easily accepted guy, not only in class but even in the college.
Good Luck!!
2006-09-29 04:21:37 · answer #3 · answered by dickwettingtown 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A person of your age need to shed inhibition and reservation. Being quiet is not a virtue. You must be a sport and take the boyish pranks of your companions in your stride. This is the most important period in your life, when you cultivate friends. You will cherish the time you spend with your friends in this age. Who knows some of the friends that you cultivate now, will remain stead fast and thick throughout your life. Being shy and sensitive like you, will not really help matters. I am able to understand you, for i was like you, once myself.
2006-10-02 20:08:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people says be silent is good .But ,not at any time.For your case , I think you should stands up and do something about it and it is better than sitting there let people making fun of you.If you keep on being a silent student ,you will be crazy someday.So, just show them what you got .You can do it.
2006-09-29 03:58:26 · answer #5 · answered by Jack 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should speak with your parents and have them go to the office and handle it. Or you can go to the office yourself and speak with the principal, if you feel comfortable enough doing that on your own. This should not be tolerated and if you do not make the principal aware there is really nothing he/she can do to help you. I would report it, the behavior is not acceptable, and must be painful for you. Good luck
2006-09-29 03:51:13 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was very much like you in my school days. I was shy then. Later on in my growing years I realised that no doubt SILENCE IS GOLDEN but it should be made to work in different situations & not in schools, Colleges etc..
Try being an Extrovert & try making friends. It will be great for your Confidence!
2006-09-29 06:25:55 · answer #7 · answered by Vibs 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relax, ignore it, you are thier to study, but if it is persistent talk to a teacher. Its a case of bullying my friend. They should grow up but try your best to ignore it and eventually they will stop! if you retaliate it will get worse. Stay quiet, ignore it and they will get tired! Just concentrate on your studies and you will be laughing when you pass your studies and they all fail!!
Take care and dont let it affect you!
2006-09-29 03:46:02 · answer #8 · answered by Mr Y! Answers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear
first of all, you would have to think for what you are silent?
i believe every one has some quality which make them different to all, find your quality and build it. and explorer it against your class met.
i 've two option for you.
1. Ignore the jokes and do your job.
2.Who one is making your joke. reflect it to him/her.
2006-09-29 04:12:14 · answer #9 · answered by azznabi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that the reason u dont talk to them is because u dont like to waist ur spit. Tell them that their not worth half of what ur spit is worth..
Or u can ignore them and hopefully they'll go away.
2006-09-29 03:45:54 · answer #10 · answered by chinaz777 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋