2006-09-29 03:30:44 · 42 answers · asked by jz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you hide it, it means that you think you are doing something wrong! So, are you doing something wrong? if YOUR answer is YES, then stop seeing that "friend". If YOUR answer is NO, then you should not be afraid that your hubby knows about it. Unless he is a closed minded, old fashioned p*g head
2006-09-29 03:45:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, hell no this isn't the right thing to do unless you have any more skeletons hiding in your closet. Would this idea be sound to you if you knew he had a lot female friends and he didn't tell you you swear up and down he was cheating unless of course you are the type that don't give a damn about his feeling it's a respect and pride things with us male a married women or men should not hang around a lot of single opposite sex end up with a married person for once that don't have to worry about them hang out all the time cause she'll send him home to wife if he is weak minded of course that's a bit on infidelity alot relationship are destroy due to lack of communication and trust see if has a lot trust in you then you will know hope this help
2006-09-29 03:38:11 · answer #2 · answered by trueexposure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of male friends. How friendly are you?
Are they work associates that you only talk to at work?
Are they guys you use to know that you keep in contact with?
Are they guys you met after you were married?
The only one of the above that you need not say anything to your husband about is the first one. While it is possible for males and females to be just friends it is not usual. Sexual attraction is always lurking somewhere around that relationship, on your or his part.
Never ever keep secrets, especially involving relationships. It will come back to byte you. You want to hurt you husband, let him find out on his own. That would do it.
2006-09-29 03:44:32 · answer #3 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married women can have friends, but keeping it a secret is not the best idea. If the shoe was on the other foot, how would you feel? I know I wouldn't like it. When you keep something like that a secret, you are putting yourself into a circle of trouble. Why would you want or have to keep it a secret, unless the are other motives behind the relationship.
2006-09-29 03:34:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not good to not tell your husband about them, because if he finds out about them, he'll wonder why you were hiding them - why would you have anything to hide, if they were just friends?
If you're hiding your male friends from your husband because he gets insanely jealous of other guys spending time with you, that's an issue that you and he and a professional need to work out. But that's him being unreasonable for the insane jealousy. Don't put yourself in the wrong as well by being dishonest.
2006-09-29 03:33:10 · answer #5 · answered by Katie S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not the right thing to do. I am not judging you but I am telling you that having a friend that you keep from your husband is just asking for trouble.
I have friends from all walks of life and of both genders. My husband knows about all of them and has met nearly all of them.
If you are married then your husband should know about all your friends. Your husband does not have to meet all your friends, or even know them by name, but if you are having lunch or after-work-drinks with friends your husband should hear about them at least in passing conversation.
2006-09-29 03:36:52 · answer #6 · answered by Sister Cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As I married woman I have male friends. My husband does know about them but never asks me about them. I chat with them online and never really hang out with them. They are guys I knew before my husband and I got married. Honesty is always the best policy you do not want to keep anything from your spouse!
2006-09-29 03:43:06 · answer #7 · answered by PinkHighHeels 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes married women can have male friends, but bad idea to keep away from husband. just reverse the script and ask yourself the same question. can married men have females friends and not tell their wife's, is this the right thing to do? that will answer your question.
2006-09-29 03:42:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why wouldn't a married woman tell her husband if he is just a friend? Nope it isn't right, besides how would she feel if her husband had a female friend that he was keeping a secret? That is the making for a disastrous marriage.
2006-09-29 03:34:26 · answer #9 · answered by heaven o 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I think a married woman can have male friends but she should tell her husband. Would you want you're husband to not tell you about his female friends?
2006-09-29 03:33:38 · answer #10 · answered by slickpam 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can have male friends, but why wouldn't you tell your husband. There sounds like there's a trust issue here. Not telling your husband is just leading to problems.
2006-09-29 03:33:32 · answer #11 · answered by LJ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋