I moved to my boyfriends 6 months ago i am now pregnant. no1 nows and my parents h8 me so what should i do?

Question

my mum and dad always said i would not suceed and they have tried blocking all acess including detting my passport i dont know what to do i no my bf will support me but i am scared of my parents what will or can they do. is there anyone who cold give me a lil bit of advise i would really appreciate it.

i am seventeeen

Answer 1

my parents hated me( well disapproved of everything) to because i was so rebellious and had a much older (9 yrs) boyfriend. but once i had kids and everyone got used to it they love him now. Your parents can't do anything if your 18. No matter what court house you go to they want the child with his mother. Your parents might be excited you should tell them plus then you know, you turned out alright, right!

Answer 2

Been there. Let me tell you once the baby comes your parents forget everything you did when you were young and give all their energy and love to this little thing that come out of you. It will get better in time but my best advise to you is start apologizing to your parents about how you behaved while you were with them. Hope it helps and good luck.

Don't listen to the guy that said you won't succeed! Everything is possible, I too got pregnant at 17. I waited 5 years before I married my babies daddy. I finished school went to collage got my degree and now I own my own home two cars. But the biggest thing you need to know is that you have the support of your BF. Both of you made the baby so both of you should raise it together. If he decides to leave, then you always have your career to fall back on.

Answer 3

If you're over 18 your parents cant do anything. They cannot withhold your birth certificate or any other paper work needed to gain a passport. you can get copies of those things from the government offices of the place you were born.

If you're under 18 they cannot make you get an abortion, and you can probably be emancipated since you're pregnant, and have been living out of the house for this long. You will need a social worker.

This is what happens when girls move in with their boyfriends. THey make babies. Your parents were trying to avoid this siatuation and thats why theyre mad. Even if they dont know you're pregnant yet they probably expect it to happen. You're going to have to be honest with them, and face up to your new responcibilities.

If you need to, finish your education so that you can better support yourself and your baby in the likely event that your boyfriend skips out on you and your child.

This is the choice you have made with your life, and you will succeed in it just fine. You'll make it, and you'll rise above. Just decide that you will, make plans on how, and then stick with it no matter what.

Whether your grown or not, you have now thrust yourself into the adult world, and its either sink or swim. you've decided to swim, and so long as you stick with that decision you will succeed and prosper.

You'll be okay.

Answer 4

First of all that is a lie from hell that you would not succeed. You will succeed in spite of their discouraging you. If you are under age you must do as they say until 18. Unless you are married, and I don't know if you need their permission for that or not. If you are 18 they have no legal right to block anything. Talk to a counselor or clergyman. Perhaps just call a lawyer and they will tell you an answer or two for free. If you are 18 then get away from them if they are hurting you. I pray that you find your answers for peace and success.

Answer 5

I was seventeen when I got pregnant and my mom was getting remarried shortly after my due date. Her husband didn't have any kids when he found out that I was pregnant he told my mom to chose him or me. He was ready to be a dad of us three but refused to be a grandfather at age 31. My mom chose him and I moved in with my boyfriend. My mom was not around my whole pregnancy. When I had my daughter my sister called my mom and her and my now step-dad both came to the hospital. She felt so guilty not being there for me. Now I'm on my second and my step-dad is there for me more than anyone. He even went to grandparents day the other day with my daughter. You should tell your parents They might be upset at first but you would be amazed how much luv a new baby could bring to your life. I'm sure they don't hate you as much as you think. I thought the samethang about my mom and now she tells me everyday she luvs me. Prove to them that you can do this with or without them. Im sure you will be fine. I hope everything works out for you it is hard that young but its possible to do.

Answer 6

Your parents will come around once the baby comes, they will be dying to see their grandchild. If your bf will support you, let him. Your parents can not make you do anything you don't want to do regarding the baby. You have already succeeded by admitting to them that you are pregnant. You sound like a very smart girl. I am sure everything will work out for you. Remember, you are pregnant...it's all about you and your baby now.

Answer 7

Well, Chrissie, what do you want us to tell you??? Now that you have jumped off the bridge, you shout for help??? If you are 18, pregnant and not married, I agree you are not going to succeed at much. What surprises me most is that this has been an issue for at least 6 months, and you didnt' even think of the question until NOW?? OR Just now you decide you DO need mommie and daddie's help.

Anyway, here is what you need to do.

1. Talk to your shack-mate and decide what to do.
2. Sit down with mommie and daddie and tell them what a jerk you are and that you are pregnant, and that you really need their moral support.
3. THIMK

Good LUck

Answer 8

It depends on your age. Are you over 18 so your considered an adult. If thats the case your parents can't do much. Why do they hate you? Is it because you moved in with your boyfriend? If so I think every parent hates the thought of their child moving out but eventually they get over it and realize that you need to start your own life.

Answer 9

inspite of the reality that the different solutions are excellent,you're an man or woman and would do as you want, I do comprehend your quandary and that the outcome of doing what you want will be very severe certainly. i'd advise you confer with yur bf and tell him what is going on ,do not ask him to marry you yet clarify precisely what is going on and the options you've been given and that you do not understand what to do. it really is conceivable he will ask you to marry him,he would have it in ideas besides perchance only no longer once this.i imagine you should confer with him and make certain he's common with the challenge yet no longer in a fashion that makes him sense he has to marry you. he needs each and each of the info

Answer 10

I was 17 when I got pregnant for the first time. I kept thinking all I wanted was to be with my bf at the time, and I was kicked out of my house, but unfortunately, I couldn't move in with my boyfriend. I was scared to tell my mom b/c I knew she would be mad. I had nowhere to go, but a friend of mine asked her parents if I could stay with them. I had to finish out high school, which I am glad I did because I would have dropped out or failed my senior year. I did tell my mom eventually, because I needed someone to talk to, and I knew my mom must have cared a little if she gave birth to me and kept me around for all those years.

I told her, and she told me everything I had to do. The first thing, you should schedule an appt with an Ob/Gyn doctor, because you don't know what can happen. I scheduled an appt, but before I could go, I had a miscarriage and I was in a great deal of pain, I was scared, and my boyfriend was nowhere around. In fact, he was with another girlfriend at the shore while I was in the hospital. My mom was the only one there for me, and she cried when I was on the floor, holding my belly and screaming in pain. I was so glad my mom was there for me because I would have been alone and and have noone for comfort. I don't know what your relationship with your parents is really like, but for me, I felt the same way. Because of my choices, my mom didn't agree with and I knew she hated me but in reality it was my choices. But she stood by me. It was hard and I wouldn't wish that on anyone else.

The next thing you will want to do is get prenatal vitamins, because the baby will need vitamins and you too. You need to take care of yourself, and drink milk, or eat ice cream. Some people get morning sickness, and sometimes the prenatal vitamins make it worse, they say eat saltines before you get out of bed to decrease that feeling. You need all the support you can get at your age, for you and the baby. If you feel depressed, you should tell your doctor, b/c that is important. Tell your doctor how you feel and that you are stressed and that you may not have support from your parents. They will be able to give you some advice too perhaps.

Good luck. You can always email me for more advice. I am going to school to be a Nurse, and I have been thinking about working in Ob/Gyn. I have been pregnant 6 times, but only have 3 kids. I had 2 miscarriages and one tubal pregnancy. Tubal pregnancies happen very early and have killed women. That is why it is so important to take care of yourself.